I want to be loved and rich. Accept money from different sources

In America, the national dream, rather even the national philosophy - everyone can and should become a millionaire. Today, a man who deftly throws a ball into a ring makes millions a month, strippers make tens of thousands of dollars a month. So the question arises: why should people who are engaged in spiritual practices, or those who are engaged in spreading love for God, receive less?

In this material world, no matter what goal you set for yourself in life, no matter what high knowledge you give to people, people will not perceive you, and all because you are not financially successful. If you are a poor loser, no one will talk to you. The Vedas say: others evaluate us by how successful we are, how much we were able to realize ourselves. First of all, this applies to men. For men who complain about problems in their personal lives, the main advice is to become successful and all problems will go away. Success today is usually measured by the amount of money we have around us.

But the law of karma also operates in the world. Each person has his own destiny, a certain karma. The law of karma states that each of us is given a certain amount of money for this incarnation. And until we change our karma, the flow of money to us cannot increase.

Also, the law of karma states that everyone has their own destiny and that we get happiness from our social realization at that moment; when we realize our talents. This means that if we are not engaged according to our nature, we will never be happy, no matter how much money we have, even if we become millionaires.

For example, a person does not work in accordance with his destiny, for example, he is supposed to be a teacher, but he became a lawyer, as is now fashionable. He can earn 5, 10 times more money, but then what happens? As a rule, such people acquire enough material goods, but their happiness is taken from other areas of life, such as family, friends, health, etc. This aspect is filled, but everything else is getting poorer. It is also possible that he will earn several million today, but in 5 years he will remain a beggar. We must demonstrate a completely different attitude to this situation if our family, our children are starving. In this situation, we are obliged to go to work where they pay. The one who has the money, who has solved the basic needs of his and his family, has the right to choose.

So let's learn the first rule - everyone should act according to his mission, according to his destiny. It gives us happiness, but the most interesting thing is that it gives us money. If we are not busy according to our nature, we cannot be happy. Secondly, we cannot be realized. And third, we can't be rich. If a person is busy in accordance with his destiny, with his talents, then he will definitely prosper and the money earned will bring him happiness. If a person is not engaged in what the soul lies to, or even earns through deceit, then the money will bring him grief and, in accordance with the Vedas, "will leave him in a maximum of 10 years."

Parable

One woman complained to the Master that wealth did not bring her happiness.

To which the Master replied:

You argue as if there is no happiness without luxury and comfort. In fact, to be truly happy, you only need one thing - to get carried away with something so that you forget yourself.

Second principle: to be successful, we must be aware that our work brings benefit to someone. We must feel it. Studies have shown that people who work but don't feel that their work is beneficial, become depressed after a few years. They work hard, earn a lot, but they are unhappy. Ayurveda states that we should not start any business if it is not aimed at the benefit of all living beings. This has a very deep meaning. That is why we live in this world. When you work only for material things, it only develops greed. How does greed prevent us from being socially realized? She limits us. Because of greed, we go to work not for our intended purpose, but where they pay more. And, ultimately, we destroy our talents, cursing the unloved work. Or because of greed, we can deceive someone, we can act dishonestly with partners and work colleagues. All this negatively affects our reputation, our implementation and, ultimately, our material well-being. Can a greedy and envious person hear intuition? Experience a sense of flight and creative enlightenment?

I have heard the assertion of modern psychologists and businessmen more than once that our internal, subconscious attitudes and negative qualities interfere with us. become rich. One of these qualities is jealousy. Envy is a quality that quickly leads us to degradation. One of the rules in this world is that the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. See how you feel about it. Maybe you feel jealous or irritated about it? If someone earns a lot, why shouldn't we be happy for him? Especially if this person makes people around him a little happier. Track the moments of your envy and greed and watch them.

Greed and envy are two of the most destructive feelings that block our path to happiness and wealth. To overcome these feelings, we must accept the concept that there is enough of everything in this world, and we get as much as we need. By and large, God does not want us to be poor. And we receive exactly as many different material benefits as we can use for the benefit of all those around us. Unfortunately, many still believe that the rich is a bad person. Just the opposite! If we have money, we always have the opportunity to help someone. A beggar can't help anyone. Remember this. The most important thing: the richer we are materially, the more opportunity we have to give and thus show our love. Another moment. Money allows us to develop and progress, money allows us to learn. They allow us to be where we want to be. This is very important to understand: money gives us a certain freedom. They give freedom and opportunity to realize themselves.

Money should bring joy. The love of money implies that we are not attached and always respectful of money. We should love money, but note that there is a big difference between love and affection. Attachment is the desire to exploit and get more, to use for selfish purposes. One of the synonyms for the word "attachment" is addiction. How to feel whether we are hooked on money or not? It is necessary to track if you are proud that you have a lot of money, and you are dismissive of those who have less and envy those who have more - this is one of the signs.

Another example, if your work has a lot of fears and doubts about income and remuneration for your work. Suppose people come to you, but instead of a sincere desire to help, you think how much money you can get from a person. If you live in love, these questions are of little concern to you. Of course, you are reasonable about this, be sure to charge a reasonable (not necessarily small) fee for your services, but you have no fear. What will be will be. You rely on God for everything. You do your job and that's it, and the rest is in the hands of the Almighty.

It is just as bad when we are embarrassed to take money for our services. It may surprise you, but most people cannot properly accept money even for a service rendered. This is also disrespectful to money. It is very important to learn how to calmly accept money. Let's say you decide to please a person by driving him home in your car. In this situation, we don't care if he gives money or not. But sometimes they do. And how do we react? Some begin to resent that this is "some kind of dirty money for my pure impulse of the soul." Or there are thoughts that something else needs to be done, to bring the bags to the door. An addiction complex will immediately grow, and we feel that we are obliged to work off this money additionally. How to check yourself if we have a similar complex? If they give you money and you just say "Thank you!" and, apart from a feeling of gratitude, no other doubts and questions arise, then everything is fine. We live in a society, so we need to learn to accept. In this world, we can achieve success if we know how to communicate with other people. For this, it is necessary both to be able to ask and offer, and to be able to take and give.

We come to the next topic... For many this will come as a surprise, but the vast majority do not want money. If you are not attached to money - that's fine. But you have to really want money. I often encounter this paradox. When you ask a person to quickly write down their life goals, rarely does anyone write: my goal is to get rich. This shows that there is no such desire in the subconscious mind. And we attract into our life only what is in the subconscious. If we do not have plans for the next year or for 5 years to earn a certain amount of money, then they are not important to you! Many are simply embarrassed to talk about it, but why? Doesn't someone want to be rich? So here's another one of the basic rules: to become rich and happy, we must want it and know exactly how much money we need. It is imperative that you write down your goals. Without this, the subconscious will not accept them.

Now let's move on from general philosophical principles to specific techniques for working with money.

Eastern psychology claims that money and time are what require respect in the first place. And if you disrespect money, then what does it do? Money, like time, just goes away from you. Especially if you don't keep records. The next rule is that we must always know exactly how much money we have in our wallet. To do this, we must periodically at least recalculate our money. But it is best to keep a constant record of your expenses. It is not necessary to idolize money, but it is necessary to respect money, count it and control it. If we don't keep track of money, it goes somewhere. And we can't figure out where. This is a mystical process. Just take a thousand dollars, go shopping with them and don't keep a record. The money will go away, and it is not clear for what. It seems that they just bought a bag of socks, but there is no money. It has been noticed that when you keep a daily record of money, for some reason they are always there. Any good businessman knows that an accountant is essential. The rules are simple - treat money with respect, keep records, and never speak ill of it. Never use abusive words to refer to money, such as "cabbage", "greens", "grandmothers" - this is a clear disrespect for money.

There is an internal manifestation of respect for money, there is an external one. One of the outer manifestations of respect is that money should be kept in a clean, beautiful, comfortable wallet. As they say, our money should have a beautiful house. It is our duty to provide money with a convenient and comfortable "accommodation" with us. Another manifestation: when you count your money, don't put it where you sit. Even if you put money on the couch, put paper on it. Otherwise, this is a manifestation of disrespect for money, you will not have it. This is one of the rules. Another rule - never put money in a dirty place. For example, on a dirty table. It's also better to add something.

And one of the most important principles. Each of us needs to start donating part of our income to worthy projects every month, at least 10th of our income. This is a very deep esoteric principle. Sacrifice breaks down obstacles in our path to prosperity and wealth. If you donate monthly, this process removes attachment to money, relieves greed. People who donate 10th of their income in a few years begin to live richer than those around them, researchers from the United States came to this conclusion. Our mind will always say: now I have little money, I don’t have enough myself, but as soon as I earn a lot ... What is interesting: the more money, the more such thoughts ...

One should learn to make donations correctly, because simply giving material things is not always good. By doing this, we can spoil a person, harm him and our soul. For many, this is really a problem: how and where to donate money? The Vedas say that it is necessary to donate to worthy people, for worthy projects. It's not so easy to find now... But keep in mind: when you donate to worthy people, your success is enhanced.

Parable

I am rich but very unhappy.

Why?

Because you spend too much time making money and too little time giving people love.

So, Let's repeat all the most important principles of attitude to money.

• In order to become rich and happy, everyone must act according to their destiny., making the most of their talents, realizing that our activities bring benefits to everyone around.

• On the way to prosperity, it is necessary to overcome the two most destructive feelings - greed and envy, realizing that there is enough of everything in this world, and we get as much as we need.

• You need to be able to gratefully accept money for the work done or the service you have rendered.

• Set yourself a clear financial goal for the next year, 5 years. You have to want money!

• Keep a daily record of your income and expenses.

• Never use swear words to refer to money.

• Buy a beautiful comfortable wallet for your money. You should not keep money scattered in different corners and pockets.

• Never put money in a dirty place and in the place where you sit.

• Get used to donating to worthy people for worthy projects part of your income, at least 10%.

These are very simple rules, the effectiveness of which has been tested for thousands of years. By following these simple, uncomplicated rules, within a year you will be able to see how your financial well-being will improve and how much you can feel calmer, more confident and happier.

Good luck and prosperity!

Based on materials from the book: Rami Blekt - "Triple Wisdom".

In the modern world, a rich lifestyle is in fashion. Losers are left behind. All conversations come down to success, money, wealth. Moreover, in the public mind, a successful person is one who can afford a lot. And these, of course, are people who have a dimensionless bank account. No one remains indifferent to prosperity, the weak half of humanity is increasingly thinking about how to become a successful and rich woman.

Change the way you think

Everyone who strives for success understands that it will take a lot of work. However, readiness alone is not enough here. You need to take full responsibility for what happens in your life. That is why the first step on the path to success should be a complete change in the way you think. Look at the world with a new look. Everything is only in your hands, you do not need to wait for the appearance of benefactors, help from the government, inheritance from relatives. Of great importance on the path to success is your financial discipline. When incomes increase, many begin to turn on the thoughts of the poor, who has long dreamed of the external attributes of wealth: a new car, a luxurious apartment, expensive clothes. At a time when you need to do investments, such people "take everything from life", but soon they are left with nothing. Not everyone thinks about how to become a successful and rich woman on their own. Most in society believe that "a woman is meant to feed her husband and raise children, but those who are trying to establish themselves are like men, they have no feminine principle." Cast aside doubts, overcome fear and do not listen to judgmental speeches. Go towards your goal firmly and without hesitation.

Ways to achieve goals

How to achieve success and wealth in life if there is no base behind you, that is, start from scratch? Many well-wishers argue that the best way for a woman is to marry well. There are also suggestions that the source of financial independence is a profitable divorce. In the question "how to become a successful and rich woman" these methods will not work for us. In these cases, the money is still earned by the man, here the woman simply takes it tactfully. The disadvantages of such methods are as follows: well-being is not in your hands, financial independence can be lost at any time. Secondly, with such methods, a woman does not rise higher, she does not learn financial discipline, she does not begin to have the way of thinking of a rich person, she does not learn to earn money on her own. Such a case is reminiscent of winning the lottery - there is money, but there is no ability to handle it. This needs to be learned. Having learned this once, a woman will be able to extricate herself from any life situation. Of course, to learn this, you need to make a lot of effort.

Develop personal qualities, make yourself successful

So, have you thought about how to become a successful and rich woman? Magic in this case is unlikely to help you, rely only on yourself. If the intentions are sincere, then you will soon begin to change the world around you. You will understand that rich people have a completely different worldview, they think a little differently:

• They look for any opportunities, find them and do not miss them.
• They never give up in case of failures, draw conclusions and act further.
• They study someone else's experience, strive for new knowledge.
• They make money work and don't worship it.
• Communicate with active and successful people, never complain.
• Life is planned for several years ahead.
• They take risks, act without delay.

Passive, poor people do this:

• They don't make plans, they live one day at a time.
• They look for the culprits of their failures.
• Their money is at the head of everything.
• They do not learn anything useful, new.
• Avoid risks in any business.
• They experience fear of failure.
• They are surrounded by the same dissatisfied people.

If you decide to change your life, get ready for the fact that your environment will dissuade you, convince you of danger, impose your thoughts on how to become a successful and rich woman from scratch: work hard and listen to your bosses. Appreciate the opinion of those who have already passed this way, trust only those people who have achieved something in life! Look for information not only about work (it quickly becomes outdated), develop as a person, read up-to-date information about business, personal development, change your outlook.

Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Boost your self-esteem

Many who know how to become a successful and rich woman created their own business from the fifth to tenth attempt. Do not think that you will succeed the first time. Mistakes are the way to success, learn to walk in the world of business as a baby takes steps in the first year of life. Only your "bumps" will help to understand what was done wrong, what is the problem and how to find a solution. It is better to make a mistake several times and draw conclusions than to sit and wait for "manna from heaven", lost in conjectures.

The main obstacle in business is low self-esteem. Raise her. Many people have some special unsurpassed qualities, but the mistake of many is to think that they are not worthy of success, it will never come to them. The reasons for this are different - youth or old age, physical disabilities, low level of qualification, the result is always the same in this case - passivity. Forget about failures, always think about your successes, even the smallest ones. If you need to, take a few psychology courses. You will always have as much money as you allow yourself to have.

How do you feel about money?

Now think about how you feel about money. In human life there is nothing more that would be surrounded by such myths as money, and yet it is just "paper". Learn to treat money as a tool for achieving goals, and not as a measure of good and evil. You are probably familiar with examples of stereotypes:

• Money is the cause of all troubles, it is evil.
• Money solves all problems.
• Big money - big problems.
• Wealth is only for the lucky ones.
• Only hard work leads to money.
• Thrift is the sister of wealth.
• Money can not buy happiness.
• Save for a rainy day, not for pleasure.
• Poverty is a virtue.

These principles will never lead you to wealth. With these attitudes, a person who has even accidentally received capital will subconsciously strive to get rid of it as quickly as possible.

Manage your expenses

For those who know how to become a successful and rich woman from scratch at 40, there is no concept of "shopping for the sake of shopping." They know how to spend money wisely and buy only the most necessary things. It would seem that there is nothing easier than controlling your expenses. However, 75% of people don't even keep track of their finances. The way of thinking of the poor makes many people do stupid things, they want to look like wealthy people in the eyes of others - they take a car on credit, buy expensive gadgets, for which they then pay for years. If you are striving for success and want to become rich, learn to manage your expenses wisely. We're not saying you have to be a cheapskate, but overspending on your thirtieth pair of shoes shows you haven't learned how to spend wisely.

Main goals

There are some secrets that reveal the essence of how to become a successful and rich woman from scratch at 40. Remember, the main thing in life at any age is to be able to set your goals correctly. Aimless movement will not get you anywhere. In matters of wealth, it is especially important to set the right goals. Of course, your global goal may seem fantastic. Yesterday's hired worker cannot imagine that he will be the owner of millions. That is why break the path to the goal into stages. So the abstract dream will begin to turn into a concrete plan, according to which you will act in the near future. The goal must be specific. "Getting rich" is not the goal. But "to earn a hundred thousand a month in a year" is already a specific setting. For example, "I want to lose weight" is not a goal, the question "I want to lose ten kilograms" is more realistic. An unattainable goal is the most powerful demotivator. Don't follow the society. If it is now fashionable to be an entrepreneur, you do not need to set yourself such a goal, dreaming of becoming a highly qualified psychologist. Achieve your goals and strive to become successful in your field, even if you dream of opening your own mental health office.

Go to action

It is not an easy task to leave your comfort zone, to radically change your life. You can change jobs if the old one hinders your development or get additional education that will allow you to get a highly paid specialty. Become a master of your craft. Thousands of girls feel successful without even resorting to business. You should not think that you can earn capital only by hard work, a good specialist can get more in an hour of work than a beginner in a week. Achieve it. You can realize your dream with the help of your favorite activities at home. After all, there are cases when a favorite hobby helps a woman become a specialist and open her own business, whether it be sewing, floriculture, making dolls, painting, even breeding cats. Move forward, study popular materials on how to become a successful and rich woman. Books in which people who have risen in life share their successes will help you. Read Napoleon Hill, John Kehoe, Robert Kiyosaki, your outlook will change completely.

How to become a successful and rich woman. start your own business

If you decide to change your life, at any age, be it 30 or 40, you will have to make a choice - to be employed or to become independent and open your own business. In many cases, the first option with a good salary is preferable, but for those who want to find freedom, it is worth taking the risk and building your own business. It may not work out the first time, but step-by-step actions, the fulfillment of the planned step-by-step goals will lead you to a dream - you will become a rich and independent woman. Believe in yourself and you will definitely succeed in life.

Not everyone can be happy, live in harmony with himself, if the wind is in his pocket. We live in a world with our own laws, in which finances play an important role. And you need to take this into account.

Harvard psychologists have come to the conclusion that money is able to give a feeling of happiness only if it contributes to the ability to escape from poverty. Constant savings, thoughts about where to take a ten before salary, somewhat interfere with a positive look at this world. But at the same time, once you start earning, it is almost impossible to stop. First you look for money for an extra pair of slippers, then for a trip to Turkey, then for a new car, then ... then ... then ...

Then there comes a moment when the acquisition of new expensive things becomes commonplace, a habit, and does not bring any inspiration - the feeling of happiness disappears without a trace. At the same time, illusions arise that large sums, big money will help to return this feeling. We are so arranged that we are never satisfied with what we have. But it was thanks to this trait of human character that our ancestors came out of the caves, built a steam locomotive, and flew into space. The desire for a better life is one of the programs for survival, which are already laid in us at the genetic level. But sometimes it's worth looking back - maybe you should just stop and finally start enjoying life?

Get ready for wealth

There is nothing wrong with having money. However, situations are not uncommon when, having a lot of money, you still feel insecure and depressed. Moreover, some features of such a secure position may come as an unpleasant surprise to you.

Psychologists say that an increase in income, as a rule, is accompanied by an increase in expenses. In addition, the responsibility for spending also increases significantly - you will constantly worry about how you can save the money you earn, in order to ensure the existence of children and grandchildren, in order to increase your fortune.

The more money you get, the more demanding your employer will be on you, the more responsibilities you will have... and the less time you will spend with your family. You can come to the conclusion that big money brings with it a lot of stress. Are you ready for daily trials, constant pressure, constant doubt?

By the way, a big role in our opinion about material prosperity is the life model that our parents passed on to us. The attitude to money is formed in the minds of every person in childhood, at the age of 5 years. If your family treated money as something shameful, if there was always not enough money in the family, then even when you grow up and manage to earn a lot of money, you will still feel extremely uncomfortable. You will constantly be haunted by fears of losing everything and returning again to this poor life. But if in childhood you adopted the abundance model from your parents, then in the future you will not be afraid of any material difficulties, knowing that any troubles can be solved. You will be able to enjoy what you have now.

Scientists have proven that happy people have certain skills that allow them to enjoy life in all its manifestations. What are the skills? First of all - vital optimism. In any event, even the most unpleasant, the ability to see the positive aspects and not notice any shortcomings, negative, is always very important. Have you been fired from your job? So this is great - I just wanted to get a new job for a long time, where my talents will be fully appreciated. By the way, those who work at a favorite, interesting job experience a feeling of happiness much more often.

“I want a fur coat, like a friend’s!”

If you want to live in abundance, then, first of all, you should ask yourself: “Why do I need to have a lot of money?”. The value of money is largely determined by the peace of mind that you get if you have a certain amount. So many people strive to just be like everyone else, they strive to keep up with their colleagues, friends, relatives, and so on. We tend to compare our wealth with the wealth of others. At the same time, we do not take Bill Gates as an example, but prefer to strive for the level of close, more prosperous relatives or friends.

Think about it. Think about why you need a more expensive and stylish mobile phone than your girlfriend? Maybe you're just jealous of her, maybe you have some complexes? If you answered yes to the above questions, then you can be sure that this purchase will not bring you any satisfaction.

Advice. If you understand that you envy the financial situation of your girlfriend, then you should find five pleasant moments in your life. For example, does she drive an expensive, fancy car? But you have a great figure, because you walk. In addition, you do not have to waste time and nerves in traffic jams, communicate with traffic cops and so on. By doing this exercise methodically, you can gradually get rid of envy. But in the event that you understand that you simply need a car, then you need to do everything in order to get it - earn money, borrow money, take out a loan, and so on.

Money as a compensation method

"I'm not married, but I'm still worth something, and I'll prove it!". For many women, failure in their personal lives becomes a factor that puts wealth and career above family or friendship. So, a person who does not have close friends tries to focus on his career.

Think about it. Is it possible that a lot of papers in your wallet can replace attention, care, love, friendship. Think about the fact that you haven’t seen your parents for a very long time, you don’t have children, men too, and you communicate with friends once every few months. Maybe you need to take a fresh look at the world and set other priorities?

Advice. There are many people who don't have what you have. Try to do charity - help an orphanage or a shelter for homeless animals. You should not be limited only to financial assistance, you can also become a volunteer. Create a new tradition - Saturday gatherings, to which you invite your friends and watch new interesting films, communicate.

"I will definitely be happy ... but then"

Which of us is not familiar with such thoughts: “I’ll buy myself a country house, a new car, open a bank account, then I’ll live a full life.” In this case, we can talk about the substitution of concepts - you simply forbid yourself to be happy until such time as you achieve the implementation of your plan. Until then, all you have to do is work, work, work. And there is simply no time left for simple human joys. But psychologists, for example, say that if a person has 5 good friends, then he considers himself an accomplished and happy person.

Think about it. Maybe you just don't know how to enjoy what you have now? Yes, all your friends admire the renovation of your apartment, but in order to make this renovation, you denied yourself small pleasures for several months, you haven’t been on vacation for a long time. Such an attitude of life can end up with the fact that you simply forget how to enjoy life, stop feeling like a living person.

Advice. You need to learn to be happy now and here. Don't deny yourself small pleasures. You can paint your monthly budget - some part will go to pay off loans, bills, some will go to groceries, necessary purchases. And do not forget to leave some part for entertainment, small joys.

We achieve harmony without money

Do not rush to change your life in pursuit of big money. Sometimes, if we are offered a big salary, we rush to a foreign city without hesitation, agree to work without days off and holidays. However, you should think very carefully before accepting or refusing such a tempting offer.

List in your head everything that you already have at the moment, and you will understand that this is not so little. You have a faithful husband, beloved son, best friend, and there are also prospects at work. Talk constantly about the fact that you are happy, and you will definitely feel it in reality.

think about it about what you lose for the opportunity to be considered a rich person. If a busy work schedule leaves you no time to spend with your children, with your family, with friends, then this is probably too high a price that you pay for your well-being.

Set limits. The race for wealth cannot go on forever. You need to be able to stop in time. Determine your limit for yourself - how much is in the bank account, what level of salary you should have so that you can calm down and relax.

get busy just something fun for you. No matter how high the salary in a job you hate, you will not be able to get real satisfaction from such a job. If you are still forced to do an unloved job, you should find at least some positive aspects in it that are not related to money - the importance of work, a good friendly team, and so on.

First of all, you need to learn to think positively and correctly. Michel Montaigne wrote “A person suffers not so much from what is happening, but from how he evaluates what is happening, and the assessment of what is happening depends entirely on the person,” this phrase contains great wisdom, think about it at your leisure. I will only add that, for example, there are blind people, people with disabilities, without arms, without legs, if everything is in order with you, then you should already be partially happy. Learn to think positively.

Love

An important item for any girl. Finding your soul mate is difficult, but as experience has shown, you don’t need to look, the time will come and “it will be found by itself” if you are still alone, then the time has not come. The main thing is to be sure that she will be found and, again, you need to lower the bar of requirements for your prince.

Work

Believe me, working for your uncle is a road to nowhere. For example, I have a girl friend who worked as a department head in a large IT company, a crisis came and she was fired and for 3 months she has not been able to find a job and this is with her experience. You need to work for yourself and only for yourself, the sooner you understand this, the better for you. Below I will write about this in more detail.

Education

Universities shmuzy is all crap. That's 5 years of wasted time. Even if you decide to work for your uncle, practical knowledge is important. The employer now does not care about your crusts, your real knowledge is important to them, and what you can do, know how. Read, improve yourself, but comprehend only useful knowledge that you can put into practice. And in the university, you are given a carload of unnecessary, outdated knowledge.

Business

As I wrote above, you need to work only for yourself. If you can turn your favorite business into a business, then this is the best option. And if you can gradually expand it, then be sure to achieve success, material well-being. But for this you need to work, work and work again. Grandfather Lenin bequeathed to study, teach and study again, he is partly right, but it is more important to work, only by working, making mistakes, stumbling over them, you will learn practical knowledge and invaluable experience will appear. And remember, "God helps workaholics," that's my phrase. A person who works very hard is helped by God in one way or another. For example, they sent me a person who helped me in my business and on my way to success very well. He helped just like that, for free, but the knowledge that he gave costs a lot of money.

What is the difference between a smart girl and a stupid one

The same difference between a smart man and a stupid man. A smart woman works for herself and makes other people work for her. And the stupid one works for her uncle, making him rich. Think about it.

Family, children and meaning is the purpose of life

I think I will not be mistaken if I write that any girl wants to be loved, healthy, rich, successful, at least for the majority, this is the formula for happiness. I will only add that if a girl has a loving husband, the children she raises as real people is also happiness. Throughout my life I have been looking for the meaning of life, and have not finally found it, but I realized that one of the options, worthy options, is to give birth to children and raise real people from them, people with a capital letter, to make them happy, successful, kind.

Money

Many people think that money is happiness. They are partly right, because money can buy everything, almost everything. And more precisely, it's all individual. For example, for me, freedom and inner harmony are much more important than money. In other matters, it’s not about me, but about the majority, and for most women, the formula for happiness is “a lot of money + true love.” I have already written about love above, but about money, or rather about business, I will write a few more words.

And again about business

There is such a wise phrase - "the road will be mastered by the walking one." To paraphrase it, I can also say that “happiness will be found by the one who seeks”, but the one who truly seeks, diligently, tirelessly. Instead of 5 minutes I looked and forgot. I'm here to what. That you need to look for a business idea, find your own, start and make this business ideal, or rather strive for this, and then you will succeed. And to make it perfect, you need to love your business. In short, find something you love and make a business out of it, and you'll be half happy already. Your business should bring not only money to you, but also benefit people, and even better if it makes them a little happy.

Conclusion

Diligence, diligence, a strong desire, trying to be happy, sooner or later you will be happy. If, after the expiration of time, you still did not become happy, it means that on the way to happiness you cheated somewhere or poorly searched for it and strived for it. And remember, life is a struggle, a struggle for happiness, freedom, love, money, success, health, and only the most purposeful achieve everything!

Before asking the question “How to become rich in Russia?”, You need to understand what it is - the very wealth that everyone aspires to. It's no secret that everyone needs different amounts of money. For some, 100 thousand rubles will become an incalculable treasure, and for some, a million dollars will not be enough. How to understand where the wealth line is?

Robert Kiyosaki (millionaire and writer) defined wealth as the amount of free time you can take without working without lowering your standard of living, or the amount of assets that can generate enough passive income.

It turns out that wealth is not a mountain of money, but time is a limited resource. Is it worth spending it on something that does not bring you pleasure?

What prevents us from becoming rich?

Everyone can become a rich person, but why not everyone achieves goals. The causes of poverty can be:

• Laziness;
• Thoughts;
• Criticism (of oneself, the state, others, etc.);
• Complaints;
• Life circumstances.

Are employment and wealth compatible?

If you study the examples of rich people, you will notice that none of them became a millionaire in wage employment. All of them were passionate about their work and developed their own business. And this is not surprising, hired work has several significant disadvantages:

1. Often hired work is unloved. People do not like their work, work according to strict instructions and do not have room to realize their own creative potential, exchanging their dream and precious life time for money and working for the success of another person.
2. No free time. You will definitely not be able to manage your time, decide when to work and rest. This will deprive you of many joys and make you feel dependent on circumstances.
3. You are constantly receiving commands. The working hierarchy is built in such a way that someone from above will constantly give you instructions, and you will be forced to obey, even if you do not agree.

Employment stability is an imaginary factor. Remember that the company needs you only as a profit-making tool. As soon as you stop doing this or start to work less efficiently, another employee will appear in your place, and you will either be fired, or demoted or reduced in salary.

Of course, this does not mean that it is worth running right now to write a letter of resignation. Especially if you love your job and you are satisfied with the position you hold. You can also achieve success in hired work if the position implies freedom of choice and independent decision-making. In the end, there is always the opportunity to organize additional passive income for yourself.

Rich Man's Mind

Rich people do not treat money as the main goal of their life. They do not idolize money, do not pray for it, and certainly do not think how they can become rich. For them, money is just a means or a tool to get what they want, opportunities and growth. Money itself has no value, it's just pieces of paper.

The main differences between the rich and the poor are presented in the table.

money karma

It is important to understand that money is energy. Monetary benefits come to you in exchange for your useful action. If this exchange of energy does not occur or something is done incorrectly, money energy stagnates and cash flow stops. Money does not like any aggressive or violent energy: deceit, theft, and also violence against oneself.

When you are in the wrong place, do not fulfill your destiny and refuse the function of the creator, you literally force yourself on the mental plane. Devoting time to unloved work, working only for money without pleasure and high goals, you will quickly notice how your material affairs will begin to deteriorate, and there will be less and less money.

On a subtle plane, to attract money, stick to the main points:

1. Give 10% of your income to charity and help other people.
2. You honestly see things, do not look for hidden benefits in everything, do not deceive.
3. Give up the principle of "money for the sake of money."

How to become rich from scratch

Many people think that it is impossible to become rich without higher education, third-party investments, a gift from heaven, rich benefactors. However, the psychology of money says the opposite: any stubborn person can acquire financial well-being. To do this, you just need to follow a certain scheme.

1. Decide to be successful

Wealth begins with an intention, so start your path to wealth with a decision to become rich, successful and happy at all costs. Be aware of your decision and intention. Now you must always act. Idle lazy pastime is no longer for you.

2. Make a plan and define your goals

The difference between rich people and poor people is that their lives are often scheduled for years to come. They clearly know what they will do in the next 10 or 5 years, in the next year, month, day.

Make a plan for your life too. Decide who you want to be and what you want to achieve 10 years from now. Of course, the goal of making a million dollars may seem unrealistic, especially if you are currently working in a low-paying position. But it doesn't matter! Look at your goal with a cold eye, determine what exactly you need to do to make it a reality. Based on these actions, make a plan for the next 5 years, then for the year, month, week and day.

Now you have a clear algorithm of actions, but a non-abstract goal. Be sure to write down all your plans, they should already have a material embodiment, even if only on paper for now.

Ask yourself two questions more often:

1. What do you want?
2. How to achieve this?

3. Find a role model

It is very difficult to go to wealth blindly and alone. Perhaps the journey along the road of life will turn out to be exciting and an invaluable experience, but it will take a very long time. It is much easier to find an experienced mentor and turn to him for advice, learn from successful experience and be inspired.

If there is not yet a living example and a rich teacher on the horizon, examples of famous people will help you. Study books about outstanding personalities and their path to success, read articles, watch films. Get an example to look up to.

4. Develop the Habits and Mindset of a Successful Person

After you have found your guiding star in the form of a rich person, study his habits, attitudes and worldview. Try to incorporate them into your life.

Give up complaining, discouragement, the position of the victim. You are the creator of your life!

5. Rethink your social circle

Protect yourself from all the eternally complaining, whining and judging people. Communicating with such people, you yourself become unsuccessful and become infected with a bad mood. Try to spend more time with positive, optimistic people and those who already know how to succeed.

6. Take care of your financial literacy

It is very important to know how to properly manage the money earned. Most people who won the lottery and received a large amount overnight, found themselves in an even more distressed situation than before winning. This is due to the fact that they simply did not know how to properly manage money: they threw it right and left, quickly squandered it, became drug addicts, lost their winnings in the casino. While a financially literate person could easily multiply this money and not need anything until the end of his days.

Basics of financial literacy:

1. Set aside at least 10% of your income. This money should become inviolable. In the future, they will work for you.
2. Get rid of debt. Give at least 20% of every income to pay off debts. Do not take new loans - this is always a liability that takes a lot of effort, energy and money from you.
3. Read more books on financial literacy, listen to lectures, attend trainings and master classes. Become an expert on this subject. Make your financial plan and act. If such planning is too difficult for you, contact a good financial advisor.

7. Invest the accumulated money

Money has to work. Those who store money "for a rainy day" lose it sooner or later. While you are accumulating the right amount for investment, study investing. This issue is very complex and requires attention and careful consideration. You can invest in stocks, mutual funds, real estate, etc.

With proper investment, you can easily reach passive income. In the meantime, there is no money, you can invest your time in education, development and research of new useful information.

8. Be Patient and Don't Give Up

Many successful people once started their journey from scratch, they have faced difficulties more than once, and many have lost everything and started over. If they had stopped then, would they have achieved wealth? No. Success loves stubborn confident people. Do not despair and do not give in to a bad mood. Remember, tests are given to you so that you become even stronger and more confident.

Once and for all, give up the expectation of quick success!

The rich are very different from the poor in their thinking, habits, attitudes and attitudes towards life in general and towards money in particular. Today, a lot of literature has been written on the topic of financial independence and success. Below are the top tips to help you become rich.

Value time and don't miss opportunities

• Give up meaningless entertainment: watching useless TV shows, hanging out on social networks, etc. Instead, learn how to spend your leisure time usefully: read useful books, attend interesting seminars and courses, spend time with loved ones.
• Rich people always know what they will do today. Make it a rule for yourself to schedule your days and plan.
• Don't give up on the opportunities that life offers you. Success loves decisive, purposeful people who know how to properly manage their time, both working and free.

Do what you really enjoy

The difference between successful people and the average lies precisely in the fact that rich people did what they really liked and what they believed in with all their hearts. It is enthusiasm that helps to immerse yourself in work with your head, burn with your work and overcome any obstacles. It gives motivation and desire to move forward.

Laziness, contrary to the opinion of the majority, is not an innate character trait, but the usual lack of motivation and desire to develop in the proposed direction. You can easily cope with laziness - find something you like.

Listen only to the opinions of people whom you respect and consider competent in the area in which they advise. This applies to both requested and unsolicited advice. Do not listen to the opinions of people who have not achieved success.

On the way to wealth, you will often meet people who will laugh at your ideas, envy, whisper behind your back and condemn. This is fine. All rich people have gone through this, because their opinion often differed from the generally accepted. Therefore, having received another advice, think about whether it is worth listening to the opinion of the adviser?

Develop communication skills

The ability to communicate helps to solve many business issues, from finding employees and selling your product, to organizing various events and concluding partnership agreements. It is much easier to develop your business when you have connections and acquaintances.

Capture Ideas

Our mind is always in motion. No one knows when a new brilliant super idea will visit your head, so always carry a notepad with a pen with you in case of such a case. Try to write down all your ideas, because no one knows how successful they are. Later, you can re-read them with a fresh mind and, perhaps, find some interesting "chips" for your business.

Take charge of your life

Stop complaining and whining, meeting obstacles along the way. Realize that you are the creator of your own destiny. No one should bring you wealth on a platter or teach you how to build a business. You alone are responsible for what happens in your life. And only you are responsible for your life.

Rest actively

Life is motion! Therefore, give preference to active rest. It is this kind of rest that rich people prefer to passive.

Watch your health

Among successful people it is difficult to find a person who would not care about their health. On the contrary, rich people are thoughtful about their diet, exercise, daily routine and timely visits to doctors. They understand that without health it is impossible to work for the benefit of your favorite business and enjoy life. Money can't buy health, so take care of it in advance.

Keep a budget

A successful person can tell to the penny how much he earned and how much he spent and on what exactly. While average people rarely keep a budget and do not know where the gap is hiding in their wallet.

Write down all your expenses and income, starting with even the smallest amounts of a few rubles, ending with large expenses. Today, you can do this in various ways: using a notebook, a regular Excel spreadsheet on a computer, various computer programs, mobile applications, etc. Choose the method that is most convenient for you. After a few months, you will already be able to draw conclusions about where your money goes and whether you are spending it wisely. It will be possible to highlight waste and reduce their number, to understand what you can save on.

By tracking the dynamics of expenses and income, you can plan your future expenses. Some sources recommend doing this in a 60/25/25 ratio:

• Where 25% of the money is set aside as an emergency reserve,
• another 25% is spent on entertainment,
• and 60% for mandatory needs.

This balance works if you are not in debt. If the income is still not very high and 25% is a very sensitive amount, you need to save at least 10%.

Get out of your comfort zone

If you are still not rich, then you are doing something wrong and you need to change the current situation. To do this, you need to get out of your comfort zone. Do what you are not used to doing, learn new things, look at things differently and step towards your fears and concerns.

Fight your fears

Fears need to be dealt with. To do this, write down all your fears on a piece of paper, read the list and think about what you can do with them. Sometimes fear can be destroyed by touching it, that is, by doing what you are afraid of. In some cases, you can seek help from a specialist. The psychologist will tell you how to properly deal with your fears.

Always learn new things

Don't stop learning! Only development and endless growth will lead you to wealth. Study the art of handling money, marketing, business literature, public speaking. In a word, everything that develops you as a person and a professional.

Accept Trials with Gratitude

The fact that something doesn’t work out for you is not a reason to be upset, and even more so to lose heart and complain about life. Look at the world from a different angle. Accept trials with gratitude as a chance to become even better, stronger, and happier through obstacles.

Cultivate selflessness and generosity

The more you give, the more comes to you - this is the law of attraction of money. Learn to give sincerely and unselfishly, without expecting anything or asking for anything in return. The more you help other people, the higher your emotional and spiritual uplift becomes, your monetary karma improves.

Keep your plans private

Don't talk about your ideas. The less people know about your plans, the more likely they are to come true. And it's not all about superstition. Just talking about your intentions, you scatter the energy given to you to implement the idea. As a result, when it comes to realization, you may not have enough of this splashed energy.

Stand up for your position

All rich people face resistance from the outside world, so it is very important to be moderately tough and defend your positions. You need to start now: politely but persistently report if you don’t like something. Do not allow boorish behavior on your part, but you should not be too soft either.

Live within your means

By keeping a budget, you know exactly what you can afford and what you can't. Never get into debt to buy an apartment, a car or another gadget - this is a typical poor man's syndrome. Carefully plan your purchases, get rid of frivolous spending and excesses. Buy only what your wallet allows. Remember, money is very fond of counting and rational planning.

Get rid of the cult of money

Money is not the most important thing in the world. Yes, they provide opportunities, development, comfortable life, travel. But they do not bring happiness to life. Learn to be a happy person without money, then they will reach out to you. And the wrong attitude to banknotes can only bring misfortune and grief.

Accept money from different sources

Money can come not only as a salary. Gifts, various discounts, offers and even help are all manifestations of the energy of abundance. Accept everything that comes into your life with great gratitude and love. Never give up the surprises of fate, so you help yourself not only to open the channel for receiving blessings even more, but also increase the abundance of your giver.

Believe in yourself

It's simple, if you don't believe in yourself, nothing will work! Rich people rely only on their own strength, and not on luck.

Don't Forget Other Areas of Life

Having a career and owning your own business is good, but don't forget to spend time with your family, meet friends, and have a good and complete rest. Pay attention evenly to all spheres of life - this will make your life full and fulfilling.

Create passive income

Invest money and make it work for you. It can be bank interest, dividends, network marketing, real estate rentals, etc. Explore all the options for generating passive income and create it. Ideally, if it gradually becomes your main income, freeing up time for development, new projects and travel.

Don't be afraid to make mistakes

There is nothing wrong with mistakes, they help to draw conclusions and find the right path. Do not stop acting, making mistakes, gaining experience and winning victories.

Work on self-esteem

In fact, there will always be as much money in your account as you allow yourself. Therefore, if now you are living from penny to penny, think about whether everything is in order with your self-esteem?

Try something new

It is not enough to create a successful business. You always need to come up with something new, introduce new schemes, change the usual methods. There must always be room for innovation in your business.

How to become a rich and successful woman

How do women get rich? Many will answer this question that in order to achieve success and wealth, a woman needs to successfully marry, or even better, successfully divorce and take away half of her fortune from her ex-husband. Of course, in some situations, such schemes work, but today a woman may well succeed on her own without the help of a man.

So how do you become a rich woman? The answer to this question has already been given in this article, the rules and algorithms of actions described above are equally effective for both men and women. The only thing I would like to wish to lovely ladies is to preserve their natural femininity, softness and beauty, without becoming like the harsh business games of men. After all, it is in femininity that the key to happiness lies in all other areas of life, including personal.

How to help your husband become successful

Not all women decide to achieve wealth on their own. Many want to do it with the hands of their man. To help a man achieve more, follow these rules:

1. Do not put pressure on a man and do not "cut" him for mistakes. Your desires are your desires, not his. In fact, he does not owe you anything, so you should not demand something or reproach your husband. So you will only discourage the desire to do something for you.
2. Create an information field around you. Learn about wealth, money and finance. Put the principles of wealth into practice. You will not notice how your man pulls himself up, seduced by your burning eyes and dedication.
3. Listen and develop intuition. In a situation where a man takes on the role of the main breadwinner of the family, all a woman can do is tell him about her premonitions. It just so happened that women feel the world thinner than men.

Wealth and success is not such an unattainable goal. Believe in yourself, be persistent and positive and then everything will definitely work out.

Get rich in 60 minutes - Robert Kiyosaki

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