Wisdom from life experience.

Only the actions of man speak
about his personality and his attitude towards you,
don't believe the words, just watch
and you will see the truth.

You cannot demand attention from a person.
Only in free flight can be seen as a person
really applies to you. Sincerity -
the most precious, the most valuable, the most real.
It always reaches the very heart. We are just
we feel it and become happy, because
they think about you, remember, worry about you. Do not require
nothing. Not to wait. And just give complete freedom of thought
and feelings.

You live the life you deserve...

Why are some people healthy and others not? Why does someone have a wonderful husband or a wonderful wife, good children and peace and harmony in the family, while others are not very successful?

Why is someone lucky with a job, maybe he even has a great business and financial condition only pleases, while the other barely survives with what he has and is hardly satisfied with his work?

Stop for a moment, look around… I mean globally look around, look at your life from above, and think about how YOU ended up in these circumstances, conditions and situations today? Why do you now have what you have and certain emotional reactions occur within you about this?

The answer is very simple and short:
BECAUSE YOU DESERVE IT.

And here there is no one to complain to, except for himself. You have that partner, that job, those children, that health and that amount of money that you deserve. The protest rises in the chest? :) So you are sitting in "your truth." Until you get out of it and look at yourself from the outside, life will not change for the better (or / and desired) side.

EVERYTHING IS GIVEN BY PERSONAL Dignity

What is this abstract concept and how to measure it? - you ask.

Let's just say that dignity is a gradation of the state of inner maturity, wisdom (this also includes comprehension of the laws of the Universe), and inner purity. The measure of dignity is not determined by the person himself. Therefore, be indignant: I am worthy, why didn’t they give me? Or trying to take, thinking that you are worthy - a useless exercise. It's like buying a car on credit and then crashing it after a while. I have a loan, but no car.

We all came into the world to change and develop. If a person stops developing, then the Universe is taken to the backyard to live out his life and degrade. The indicator of our development is the response from the world around us: the society in which we find ourselves, the formation of certain circumstances and situations that directly or indirectly indicate to us the state of things in our lives, and so on.

EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD IS IN A FINE RELATIONSHIP OF "BALANCE"

The so-called balance here is a rather illusory concept and works on the principle of scales: one bowl is inside you, the other is outside. What and how much you have contained within yourself will respond with certain changes and in a certain amount in the outside world (according to the law of systemology).

For example, a person in the prenatal period received a psychotrauma when his mother wanted to have an abortion, then in childhood he added unrealized claims to his father or mother, in his youth he experienced unrequited love, which also left in him a certain kind of emotion. Not everything is going smoothly inside him, he will get the same thing in life: an unconscious rejection of life in general, isolation from the earthly plan, in his partner he will find what he did not work out with his parents, and so on.

It's also possible like this:

Have you heard the theory about the holographic nature of the world? Many scientists adhere to this theory. In short, it can be voiced by the more ancient wise words “what is above is the same below” (Hermes Trismegistus).

Therefore, whether you like it or not, you will have to recognize the fact that if you want to change the world around you, then you need to start with yourself. It is useless to drink pills, change partners, jobs, get angry at children, resent the lack of money, and so on.

To begin with, it is worth accepting the circumstances in which you find yourself - they show your level of development and are the starting point in order to outline how, where and how you should move in order to achieve what you want. Sincere gratitude for what you have is also an indicator of your worthiness (read: wisdom and inner purity) and it should be if you want to move higher.

Working on yourself in all areas of life
you will receive a response from the world.

Did the job - got the result. The result you get will be directly proportional to the effort you put in. And here it is the measure of Dignity. It is likely that you will feel that you have done a great job, but received little .... not at all. The measure is not determined by man. Not satisfied with the result? So somewhere you gave up the slack, maybe the lack of knowledge influenced and you did not complete the work.

As you move towards a better life, through knowledge and work on yourself, you will develop sensitivity and be able to feel and understand what you really need, your true desires and capabilities, and what needs to be done to get it (we are talking about both material and about the intangible components of the world). And you will also be able to understand what you deserve, what you still need to work on in yourself in order to become worthy and get what you want, and what the Universe was guided by when it measured out this or that blessing as a gift.

Pain can make you stronger, or it can burn you to ashes, the choice is yours.
Your path will always remain your path, you can take other people with you, but you cannot have someone else walk this path for you.
You can fall, but no one can stop you from getting up again and continuing on your way.
Moving towards your goal can be long and tiring, but the most important thing is that you are moving towards it.
Age creates wrinkles on the body, and the rejection of a dream creates wrinkles in the soul.
Watch your words, you can’t take them back, they can hurt, and apologies may not be enough to heal.
True love can grow only on the provision of freedom and the ability to forgive.
Maturity comes not when we start talking about big things, but when we start understanding small things.
If someone can't accept your worst, they don't deserve your best.
Live as if someone spoke badly about you, but no one could believe them.
Don't label other people. They may not appear to be who they really are.
Don't let what doesn't matter cause you to lose what's important.
The one who complains about everything around and does not appreciate anything can be the most dangerous enemy of your success.
Don't be afraid to go slow, be afraid to stand still - that's the worst thing you can do for yourself.
Tell the truth. She is like a boomerang, and like a lie, is able to come back.
People rarely notice when something is done for them, they notice it when they stop doing it for them.
Ninety percent of our worries are about what won't happen.
Success is the ability to move from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.
If you have a choice between two people, then choose the second, because if you truly loved the first, then the second would not have appeared.
To find a new path, you need to get off the old path.
Only the actions of a person speak about his personality and his attitude towards you.

Don't believe the words, just watch and you will see the truth.

The rule to live by is to remain human in all situations.
We think that God sees us from above, but he sees us from within.
If you find a person with whom you can behave as freely as you behave alone with yourself, then appreciate him as air.
A strong man is not the one who defeats the weak, but the one who helps the weak to become strong.
There are no accidents. Everything in this world is either a test, or a punishment, or a reward.
Life is not the days that have passed, but those that remain.
Where we are expected, we always find ourselves right on time.
If you want to be successful, you must look like you have it.
Those who read books will always control those who watch TV.
When you point your finger at others, see that the other three fingers are pointing at you.
The worst enemy is doubt. Because of him, we lose what we could have gained, but did not even try.
Do not be offended by the words when you do not see the eyes.
Recipe for success: study while others are sleeping, work while others are loitering, prepare while others are playing, dream while others are wishing.
Sometimes one touch can do more than you think.
In 20 years, you will regret more what you didn't do than what you did.
If a person is looking for the meaning of life, then he will not find anything. If a person seeks life itself, he will find its meaning.
Life is not a zebra of black and white stripes, but a chessboard. It all depends on your move.
It is better to do well than to speak well.
Wherever you go, start from where you are.
Being single doesn't mean you're weak, it means you're strong enough to wait for what you deserve.
Be attentive to your thoughts, they are the beginning of actions.
The one who is guilty does not always ask for forgiveness. The one who cherishes the relationship asks for forgiveness.
We choose friends ourselves, but time leaves the best of the bottom.
Sometimes for happiness you need to fight with yourself, with laziness, with pride and attachments.
Most people spend their lives in captivity because they live only in the future and the past, they deny the present. Although the present is where it all begins.
The true attitude towards a person does not depend on mood and circumstances.
Love is a priceless gift. It's the only thing we can give, and yet we still have it.
Don't rely too much on anyone in this world, because your own shadow eats you up when you're in the dark.
In this world, there is only one way to earn love - stop demanding it and start giving.
Talking without thinking is like shooting without aiming.
Everyone wants to change the world, but no one wants to change themselves.
Too many people break down without realizing how close they were to success at the moment they lost heart.
The most cruel thing is to leave without explanation, to leave silently, leaving a person alone with hundreds of razor-sharp questions in his head, to which only you can answer.
Our views are like our clocks - they all show different times, but everyone believes only their own.
The more you try to achieve a person who does not appreciate you, the more painful for you will be the blows of his indifference.
To be listened to, sometimes it is enough to switch to a whisper.
Choose a job you love and you won't have to work a single day in your life.
When I'm having a hard time, I always remind myself that if I give up, it won't get better.
Today, people have ceased to perceive each other as actually people. They are interested in everything: how you dress, how much you earn, what car you drive, but not yourself.
There is no greater pleasure in life than the pleasure of overcoming difficulties on the way to success.
Life is a series of problems, and the choice is ours to either whine or solve them.
In this life it doesn't matter how you fall, it matters how you rise.
To fly with eagles, don't graze with turkeys.
Never take the advice of people who do not live the way you want to live.
The only person you should compare yourself to is you in the past. And the only person you should be better than is you right now.
Imagine how quiet it would be if people only spoke what they knew.
Take risks, if you win, you will be happy, and if you lose, you will be wise.
It is not difficult to believe people, it is difficult to believe again.
The only recipe for any business is to be sincere. When you are passionate, do something sincerely, then everything works out.
People spend their whole lives looking for something beautiful, but in the end they get what they deserve.
We are never deceived, we are deceived ourselves.
Each person is given at least 10 opportunities to change their life during the day.
We say the most important words in our lives silently.
Ridiculous screaming in rage, but terrible silent in resentment.
When communicating with a person, remember that he has a good opinion of himself.
Today is not an ordinary day, today is the day in which our future is created.
The more often you turn to face fear, the less strength it has left.
Don't be afraid to love! Love wins and will win!
The main thing in the struggle for each other is to believe in each other.

Bernard Show

4 years ago