A real home for people who. The role of the house in a person's life or why you are stuck in a rented apartment

Someone does not have a home, someone lives with their mother-in-law, someone in rented housing, and there are those who have their own apartment, but there is no feeling at home!

Any person, and especially a woman, should have a home, a feeling of home. Without this feeling, a person gets sick, without a sense of home there can be no inner harmony, which is always associated with a deep feeling of home.
Such a person does not seem to live; life is postponed until later, the standby mode is on. Here I will move, here I will make repairs, here I will increase the area ...

HOME is a place, a space where you feel safe, comfortable and rejuvenate.

I'M HOME!
In the house you can always rest, relax, gain strength, make important decisions.
Home is a place where any spiritual wounds are healed, a place where you are accepted for who you are.
I don’t want to leave the house, I don’t want to leave it for a long time, because it is alive and it is a place of power for us.
The house says a lot about us: about our desires, aspirations, relationships, where our energy is directed, what happens to us inside.
The house is the foundation on which ALL OUR LIFE is built. Your adult and conscious life.
Often we seek development and personal growth outside our doorstep. And at home - torn sweatpants, bad food cooked in haste, everything is neglected and not well maintained! Unstyled hair, scandals and swearing.
Home for many becomes a rooming house. But after all, all the most important moments of life unfold at home. In the house we build relationships, raise children, give them something important, something with which they will go through life.
It is at home that real life takes place. What is yours? Or do you only live at work?

When we cannot organize our daily life, we run away from home to travel, looking for rest and happiness there. But if there is no happiness and rest in the house, you will not find it on the journey either. And upon arrival, for a very long time you will have to be included in your life! A frequently traveling woman hides her inner discomfort, weariness from life, and the lack of a sense of peace and inner harmony.

When a woman is not rooted, this is bad, it has a destructive effect on her psyche.

NO FEELING AT HOME:
- when you stay at work for a long time;
- when it's better for you to be anywhere but at home;
- you travel and move a lot;
- when at home you feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable;
- when you do not feel comfortable and safe in the space in which you live;
- and you always want to change something, move, increase the area.

HOW TO RETURN THE FEELING OF HOME?

A house appears when we are in harmony with ourselves, with life, when we want to live, build, create, give birth to children, take root!

You have to grow up to have your own home. The "children" have no homes! They are always wandering around in other people's houses! And rented accommodation! Remaining a child, a person subconsciously wants to return to where it was easy, calm and protected. Why his own house, if he already has a parental house, and with all the fibers of his soul he strives to get there again.

The home, or lack of it, fully reflects what is going on inside you.

It's good to be aware of your fears.
Perhaps some in childhood were afraid to go home, afraid of unpredictability, afraid of outbursts of parental anger, claims and comments. Why didn't she do it? Late? Didn't get away?
It was calmer everywhere - with friends, on the street, but not at home, perhaps at home there were scandals, drunkenness.
The house was something dangerous! And you were afraid to go home. Therefore, today it is so hard to take root, so hard to settle down and create your own space, there is no such experience! But being aware of these moments, moving forward is much easier than when we live in ignorance.

TO BUILD A FAMILY, you need to BUILD A HOUSE, have a common space, without this there will be no family.

When there is a family, but not at home for a long time, this is a signal. Perhaps the woman did not choose a man, she subconsciously wants to return to her parents' house, so the common house does not add up. The lack of housing is a signal: the standby mode is on. The question is what are you waiting for?

When a woman chooses a man, she has a desire to have her own house. A man always feels this and begins to act, a woman only needs to support him in this.

IT'S NOT ABOUT THE MONEY. There is no money when the house is not needed. There is no family in the energetic sense, no home. The solution to the housing problem depends on the relationship in the couple: if they exist, then there will be no problems with the house!

RENTAL HOUSING is a psychological immaturity, especially when such accommodation is extended for years. Apartment parents are “parents”, strict and responsible. They decide for you what to do, what furniture to buy, what fee to charge you. You are dependent on where we should normally be free. As children. You have to ask if it's possible to have a dog or a cat, plant flowers, even have a baby. Landlords are responsible for their own housing and its safety. Not you.

Therefore, if you live in rented housing, you need to grow up. And to understand that the lack of housing is based not on a money issue, but on the unwillingness to create your own home and break away from your parents.

It's like waking up, shaking off sleep and slowly but surely starting to move in the right direction. Awareness of what is happening to you is the way to your own home.

You must have an image of the house. Start creating the image of your home and the quality of life already within the walls of others and in the space where you are. Start growing up! You must have your own things. And how do we live in rented housing? Someone else's dishes, someone else's curtains, everything is someone else's.

HOME IS A BIG RESPONSIBILITY AND AN ADULT INDEPENDENT LIFE!

And for a woman, this is her place of power! Therefore, everything in your house should please you, everything should be yours energetically!

And if you don’t have your own home today, you need to create your own space, the prototype of “YOUR HOUSE”, buy things that you will take into your home! And not to live like this: if there is a house - I will buy, but for now on old sofas and on shabby stools, with old wallpaper :))

To be honest to the end, then in a rented apartment you will never be like at home. There is no way to take root there, at any moment you may be asked to sack your world and transport it to a new place, settle down again, settle down and be disappointed again. Why is rented housing scary? We give nothing to this house, and the house gives us nothing. We have no place of power!

We need to finish this internally. What makes you wander and be restless? What's the worst thing that will happen when you have your own house?
AND THIS QUESTION IS FOR UNMARRIED WOMEN: Why did you end up in rented housing, why did you not get married, but moved out to a rented apartment? It didn't happen by accident, did it?
These questions allow you to think, to realize very important, deep and root motives that underlie your whole life!

HERE ARE THE DISADVANTAGES OF OWNING YOUR OWN HOME, we found together with a participant in the Women's School (now she lives with her husband in the house of her mother-in-law):
- The house must be maintained;
- Now the parents bear part of the expenses, but they will have to do it themselves;
- We will finally tear ourselves away from both parents;
- There are always many things to do in your own house;
- It will not be possible to leave the child and go on business;
- Feeling of loneliness;
- This is your responsibility, which lies only on you;
- You won’t leave your house, even if you quarrel a lot.

HOUSE (APARTMENT) is something solid and complete! It is your choice, including with whom you will live! And we are afraid of this solidity and completeness, and therefore we wander for 40 years in other people's houses, because the choice has not been made!

ADVIСE:
OUR HOUSE IS OUR REFLECTION. And if we want to change something in the house, then the changes need to start in our own souls.
HOUSE IS A PLACE OF POWER, it is treated with respect and reverence, so be careful not to defile your house with scandals, swearing and scolding, because all this negativity settles on the walls and sucks strength out of you for a long time. And the house should give strength.
Let your house be a full bowl, start with food. It should always be prepared consciously and attract well-being and family happiness.
Invite guests and be ready to receive unexpected guests! Let there be order and comfort! Order is not when everything is washed and cleaned, but when it is felt that there is a mistress in the house, there is her way of life, her order, her rules!
Every day in your home can be joyful and fulfilling, bring satisfaction, and not be lived hastily and on the fly.
Start meeting and seeing off your household members. Meet your husband and children, not out of the room, but on the threshold, without asking questions, but just show that you are glad to meet you, that you have been waiting! First, feed, drink, put to bed, and only then ask questions!
It's bad when a woman meets her husband! Something in your life has gone wrong!
Think about how you can please, surprise, give a feeling of comfort and coziness to all family members and guests as well?
In the Caucasus there is a saying: A guest in the house - God in the house! By inviting guests, you invite well-being to the house, by giving you get! Do not save on this, do not be stingy with kind gestures, with your energy, with your attention.
I have written more than once about beautiful tea pairs, buy a fruit bowl, a dinner set and start using it, as well as gravy boats and a tureen.
After all, in order to do all this, you will have to improve relations in the family, become kind, attentive, hospitable, generous, smart! That's where your personal growth is. In home. Not outside of it.
It is at home that a space of love and understanding is created between a man and a woman! If there is no this space, there is no future for the relationship! Remove, throw away everything that seems alien, unnecessary and ugly! Everything should please you, everything should be yours.
We must learn to create our daily life in our own home. Create your world! What kind of world do you want to create?
And if you don't have a home, then you should have the experience of creating your own world!
Live well today, do not put off life for later! And you will have this happy experience. Without it, even in a new apartment, you will feel unsatisfied.
And happiness will also attract the necessary funds for its own meters or additional ones.
When you begin to cultivate a FEELING OF HOME in yourself, everything will begin to change - your thoughts, actions, and most importantly - your LIFE!

On this page, we have listed the most common family-related problems. All of them have a place to be in the content. Under each heading, you will find two arguments for writing on the exam in the Russian language. You can also download the table with all these examples at the end of the article.

In comedy D.I. Fonvizin "Undergrowth" this problem touched one of the main characters Mitrofanushka - the son of the landowners Prostakov. The young man is already 16 years old, but he still does not know what he wants from life. It cannot be said that the parents did not love the child, on the contrary, they literally choked him with their care and guardianship. Mitrofanushka's mother, Mrs. Prostakova, demonstrated a particularly similar zeal for "education". Maternal love completely blinded the domineering woman. She seemed to see nothing around, except for the exaggerated merits of the underage Mitrofan. She did everything to bind him to her forever. From here came the lack of independence of the young man, laziness and lack of education. The undergrowth had no need to bother himself, since all the problems were solved for him by an overly attentive mother. Thus, in the play D.I. Fonvizin's family played a huge role in the life of Mitrofanushka: blind parental love did not allow the hero to develop.
In the story of N.V. Gogol "Taras Bulba" The problem of the role of the family in the formation of personality is one of the most important. The family of the old Cossack Taras Bulba had two sons - Andriy and Ostap. The image of the father for the latter became sacred. From childhood, Ostap obediently did everything that his parent taught him. He inherited from him such character traits as perseverance and masculinity. Feelings of patriotism, duty to family and comrades were also instilled in the Cossack by his father. It is safe to say that thanks to family upbringing, respect for the traditions of his ancestors, Ostap stood up for his Motherland with dignity, withstood all the torments of execution. However, the excessive pressure and excess energy of Taras had a negative impact on the upbringing of Andriy, who fled from his home and violated all the unwritten rules of his kind. He rebelled against the pressure of the head of the family and wanted to build his life differently. Thus, the same upbringing had a different effect on the fate of Bulba's sons.

The problem of fathers and children

The protagonist novel by I.S. Turgenev "Fathers and Sons" Yevgeny Bazarov could not find a common language with his parents. Being an adherent of new inoculations and mores, a man of science, not faith, Evgeny Bazarov considers the behavior of parents inappropriate and outdated. He loves his old people, but doesn't want to live in the past. Also, the liberal views of the hero give rise to a conflict between him and his friend's uncle, Pavel Petrovich Kirsanov. Yevgeny is horrified by the fact that Kirsanov is ready to spend money on white collars and an imported suit in the countryside, where no one sees his efforts anyway. According to the young physician, the art dearly loved by Pavel Petrovich could not be compared with science and the natural labor of a person. The elderly man also does not understand the guest, considering him an ill-mannered snob. Only in the final they come to terms with the existence of each other, recognizing the fact that the confrontation of generations is a normal phenomenon.
The reason for the broken destinies of heroes plays by A.N. Ostrovsky "Thunderstorm" again there is a mutual misunderstanding that arose due to the difference in age, different views on the world of fathers and children. So, the main character of the work, Katerina, became an unloved daughter-in-law, because she does not correspond to the ideas of the merchant Kabanikh about a decent person: she does not obey her mother-in-law, allows herself to speak out about something, is deprived of meekness and respect for elders. The confrontation between generations leads to complete chaos in the Kabanovs' house, and ultimately to Katerina's suicide. Another representative of the "elite" of the city of Kalinov and co-ruler of Kabanikh in the "dark kingdom", the merchant Dikoy hates his nephews and the whole family as a whole. It is difficult for him to accept that the younger generation has the same rights as himself, that the same Boris deserves respect. And young men and women also rebel against outdated orders: Varvara deceives her mother, and in the final she runs away from home altogether, Tikhon blames Kabanova for the death of his wife, etc. Alas, all the characters lacked kindness and understanding, otherwise they could have avoided all these negative consequences.

The problem of education

Father of Peter Grinev - one of the main characters stories by A.S. Pushkin "The Captain's Daughter"- asked his son to learn a simple truth: "take care of honor from a young age." Thanks to the instructions of his father, exemplary education, Pyotr Grinev was able to emerge victorious from a difficult game called "Pugachevism". The honor and respect of not only friends, but also opponents, led Grinev, despite his misdeeds, to finding happiness and success in business. Of course, the contribution of Savelich's father and "nanny" is a very significant contribution to this victory. Peter did the right thing when he did not reject the advice of his elders, drawing conclusions from them, the hero tried to act according to his conscience in everything and with everyone.
It is one thing when the advice of parents is good for us, and quite another when the harmless lesson of the father suddenly turns into the cause of the son's catastrophes. Yes, in poem by N.V. Gogol "Dead Souls" tells about the fate of a once poor young man who became a prosperous and active person. As we know, Chichikov decided to organize an adventure and cash in on the mortgaged peasants, who in fact do not exist. For the sake of enrichment, he was ready for any deception, so he traveled around the estates and tried with all his might to persuade the owners to sell him dead souls. The reason for such a frantic craving for money was upbringing: even as a child, Pavel received an order from his father so that he would never forget the value of money, put material goods above all else. Such words served as a catalyst for moral decline, and later, oddly enough, the disastrous financial situation of the hero, because he left with nothing after Korobochka was exposed.

Children's neglect of parents

Of course, all children love their fathers and mothers, no matter what the circumstances, but the realization of this fact does not always come immediately, that is, at an early age, when we are still able to correct the situation while our parents are alive. In the story of K. G. Paustovsky "Telegram" the young heroine Nastya did not at all think about how dear her mother was to her. Nastya did not understand that the bright colors of big Leningrad would not replace her maternal love and affection. Unfortunately, the girl realized this too late - only when her mother was dying. The death of the closest person gave rise to a feeling of endless guilt in Nastya, because the old woman left this world alone, without saying goodbye to her daughter.
As for the main the hero of the novel I.S. Turgenev "Fathers and Sons" Yevgeny Bazarov, he also admitted his mistakes late, already on his deathbed. He appreciated the care of his father and mother, but considered its manifestation optional for himself. By virtue of his character, an educated hero performs rash actions - he repels parents who are not sufficiently consecrated for scholarly conversations with him. Although, as it turned out, the feelings are much closer to the young nihilist than he himself thought. But he, rejected by his beloved woman, recognizes this much later, in need of help and affection. He realizes how painful it is for his mother to see his indifference, how ashamed she is that she is not smart enough to please her son. Alas, this realization is too late, and the hero dies with a sense of guilt.

Someone does not have a home, someone lives with their mother-in-law, someone in rented housing, and there are those who have their own apartment, but there is no feeling at home!

And many readers have long been waiting for the promised article from me on the lack of housing. I did not want to write about it, but, apparently, the time has come.

Such a person does not seem to live; life is postponed until later, the standby mode is on. Here I will move, here I will make repairs, here I will increase the area ...

HOME is a place, a space where you feel safe, comfortable and rejuvenate.

I'M HOME!

In the house you can always rest, relax, gain strength, make important decisions.

Home is a place where any emotional wounds are healed, a place where you are accepted for who you are.

I don’t want to leave the house, I don’t want to leave it for a long time, because it is alive and it is a place of power for us.

The house says a lot about us: about our desires, aspirations, relationships, where our energy is directed, what happens to us inside.

The house is the foundation on which ALL OUR LIFE is built. Your adult and conscious life.

Often we seek development and personal growth outside our doorstep. And at home - torn sweatpants, bad food cooked in haste, everything is neglected and untidy! Unstyled hair, scandals and swearing.

Home for many becomes a rooming house. But after all, all the most important moments of life unfold at home. In the house we build relationships, raise children, give them something important, something with which they will go through life.

It is at home that real life takes place. What is yours? Or do you only live at work?

When a woman is not rooted, this is bad, it has a destructive effect on her psyche.

NO FEELING AT HOME:

- when you stay at work for a long time;

- when it's better for you to be anywhere but at home;

- you travel and move a lot;

- when at home you feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable;

- when you do not feel comfortable and safe in the space in which you live;

- and you always want to change something, move, increase the area.

HOW TO RETURN THE FEELING OF HOME?

A house appears when we are in harmony with ourselves, with life, when we want to live, build, create, give birth to children, take root!

The home, or lack of it, fully reflects what is going on inside you.

It's good to be aware of your fears.

Perhaps some in childhood were afraid to go home, afraid of unpredictability, afraid of outbursts of parental anger, claims and comments. Why didn't she do it? Late? Didn't get away?

It was calmer everywhere - with friends, on the street, but not at home, perhaps at home there were scandals, drunkenness.

The house was something dangerous! And you were afraid to go home. Therefore, today it is so hard to take root, so hard to settle down and create your own space, there is no such experience! But being aware of these moments, moving forward is much easier than when we live in ignorance.

To build a family, you need to build a house, have a common space, without this there will be no family.

When there is a family, but not at home for a long time, this is a signal. Perhaps the woman did not choose a man, she subconsciously wants to return to her parents' house, so the common house does not add up. The absence of housing is a signal: the standby mode is on. Question - what are you waiting for?

When a woman chooses a man, she has a desire to have her own house. A man always feels this and begins to act, a woman only needs to support him in this.

RENTAL HOUSING is a psychological immaturity, especially when such accommodation is extended for years. Apartment parents are "parents", strict and responsible. They decide for you what to do, what furniture to buy, what fee to charge you. You are dependent on where we should normally be free. As children. You have to ask if it's possible to have a dog or a cat, plant flowers, even have a baby. Landlords are responsible for their own housing and its safety. Not you.

It's like waking up, shaking off sleep and slowly but surely starting to move in the right direction. Awareness of what is happening to you is the way to your own home.

A HOUSE IS A BIG RESPONSIBILITY AND ADULT INDEPENDENT LIFE!

And for a woman - this is her place of power! Therefore, everything in your house should please you, everything should be yours energetically!

We need to finish this internally. What makes you wander and be restless? What's the worst thing that will happen when you have your own house?

And THIS QUESTION FOR UNMARIED WOMEN: Why did you end up in rented housing, why did you not get married, but moved out to a rented apartment? It didn't happen by accident, did it?

These questions allow you to think, to realize very important, deep and root motives that underlie your whole life!

HERE ARE THE DISADVANTAGES OF OWNING YOUR OWN HOME, we found together with a participant in the Women's School (now she lives with her husband in the house of her mother-in-law):

- The house must be maintained;

- Now the parents bear part of the costs, but they will have to do it themselves;

- We will finally tear ourselves away from our parents;

- There is always a lot to do in your own house;

- It will not be possible to leave the child and go on business;

- Feeling of loneliness;

- This is your responsibility, which lies only with you;

“You won’t leave your house, even if you quarrel a lot.

ADVIСE:

OUR HOUSE IS OUR REFLECTION. And if we want to change something in the house, then the changes need to start in our own souls.

HOUSE IS A PLACE OF POWER, it is treated with respect and reverence, so be careful not to desecrate your house with scandals, swearing and scolding, because all this negativity settles on the walls and sucks strength out of you for a long time. And the house should give strength.

Let your house be a full bowl, start with food. It should always be prepared consciously and attract well-being and family happiness.

Invite guests and be ready to receive unexpected guests! Let there be order and comfort! Order is not when everything is washed and cleaned, but when it is felt that there is a mistress in the house, there is her way of life, her order, her rules!

Every day in your home can be joyful and fulfilling, bring satisfaction, and not be lived hastily and on the fly.

Start meeting and seeing off your household members. Meet your husband and children, not out of the room, but on the threshold, without asking questions, but just show that you are glad to meet you, that you have been waiting! First, feed, drink, put to bed, and only then ask questions!

It's bad when a woman meets her husband! Something in your life has gone wrong!

Think about how you can please, surprise, give a feeling of comfort and coziness to all family members and guests as well?

There is a saying in the Caucasus: A guest in the house - God in the house! By inviting guests, you invite well-being to the house, by giving you get! Do not save on this, do not be stingy with kind gestures, with your energy, with your attention.

I have written more than once about beautiful tea pairs, buy a fruit bowl, a dinner set and start using it, as well as gravy boats and a tureen.

After all, in order to do all this, you will have to improve relations in the family, become kind, attentive, hospitable, generous, smart! That's where your personal growth is. In home. Not outside of it.

It is at home that a space of love and understanding is created between a man and a woman! If there is no this space, there is no future for the relationship! Remove, throw away everything that seems alien, unnecessary and ugly! Everything should please you, everything should be yours.

We must learn to create our daily life in our own home. Create your world! What kind of world do you want to create?

And if you don't have a home, then you should have the experience of creating your own world!

Live well today, do not put off life for later! And you will have this happy experience. Without it, even in a new apartment, you will feel unsatisfied.

And happiness will also attract the necessary funds for its own meters or additional ones.

WHEN YOU START TO Cultivate A FEELING OF HOME IN YOURSELF, EVERYTHING WILL START TO CHANGE - YOUR THOUGHTS, ACTIONS AND MOST IMPORTANTLY - YOUR LIFE!

Try it, you will like it!

Tatyana Dzutseva

Series of messages "Wisdom":
Part 1 - The role of the house in a person's life or why you are stuck in a rented apartment

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What is a house? The place where the person lives? Just a building? A place to go after work? Not! The house is something more, here every thing is precious because it reminds us of something good. The house is a treasure trove of information. This is not just a room, as people usually think. Every corner, every found thing can tell about a whole era. T. Shcherbina raises the problem of the significance of the house for a person. She states: “The house is a labyrinth, that is, an inexhaustible space with many nooks and crannies, no matter how small the apartment is.” As for my opinion on this, I fully support the position of the author. In my incomplete eighteen years, I have already had the opportunity to visit many cities and countries and live in different houses. And in each of them I learned something new and interesting. But I love my own apartment most of all, because here even a cup without a handle is a memory of the person who gave it. If you recall where else these amazing properties of the house are said, then the first thing that comes to mind is the story of H. F. Lovecraft “The Case of Charles Dexter Ward”, the main character of which, a very smart but reserved person, studies the history of his ancestor, carefully examining the house where his great-great-grandfather lived. Old paintings, scientific works, test tubes, mysterious books and eerie graffiti tell Charles about the life of his relative, the mysterious Joseph Curwen. The film "The Legend of the Pianist" tells the story of a man whose home was a ship. The protagonist was born and lived all his life on a ship. He knew every nook and cranny of his dwelling. And he himself became part of history as an integral part of the ship. What is a house?

A house is a whole universe, hidden in a small space, capable of telling about the most interesting moments in the life of the owners.

According to Laptev

How often contemporaries are unfair to brilliant, worthy people with whom they happened to live in the same era!

The problem of non-recognition of the talent of strong personalities is that people are unwilling to recognize in others their own merits and talents that surpass them.

It is precisely the fact that society is often unable to appreciate the accomplishments of outstanding contemporaries, their selfless service to the cause, and only subsequent generations can discover the true scale of the personality of a great man, the well-known Russian publicist and teacher Vladimir Vitalyevich Laptev argues.

The author bitterly states: "... you experience a heart-wrenching pain because many great people constantly endured adversity, languished in loneliness, deprived of sympathy and support, cruelly reproached by those whom they sincerely served"

I share V. Laptev's sympathy with great, and therefore lonely, personalities, and I also believe that, unfortunately, only descendants are able to appreciate their services to the Fatherland.

Such examples are described in fiction and are familiar to us from history.

So, V. Ganichev in the historical novel "Admiral Ushakov" describes the lonely old age of a genius naval commander forgotten by everyone, who did not suffer a single defeat in battles, won great victories, managed to escape from the captivity of old theories and discovered new laws of naval combat, who created more than one invincible squadron who brought up many glorious commanders and crews of warships.

A similar fate was with the great storyteller G-Kh. Andersen. During his life he experienced a lot of grief and resentment, survived years of poverty and neglected patronage from recognized poets and writers. As K.G. Paustovsky in the work “The Great Storyteller”, too often, even in old age, Andersen “was given to understand that he, the son of a poor shoemaker, should know his place in society. They hushed him up, slandered him, mocked him ... "And today, almost all children in all European countries know and love Andersen's immortal creations ...

Just as brilliant, but not recognized during his lifetime, was our countryman Konstantin Vorobyov. Only many years after his death, in 1994, the writer was awarded the prize. Sergius of Radonezh, and on October 1, 1995, the ashes of Konstantin Dmitrievich were transported from Vilnius and reburied at the Nikitsky cemetery in Kursk.

Thus, unfortunately, the fate of most strong and talented personalities is to be misunderstood by their contemporaries. Fortunately, at least the descendants have the opportunity to perpetuate their great names and preserve the memory of their exploits in the history of the Fatherland.

The problem of injustice towards others

Each of us, probably, at least once in his life tried to bypass the long line to the doctor, believing that others, apparently, are not so bad, and they can wait.

The problem is that many people are unfair to others. Selfishness pushes us to mean deeds, justifying itself by the fact that it is unbearable to endure pain, or by the fact that we have more important and urgent things to do than sitting in a long queue.

So did the hero K. Akulinin, offering money to quickly get to the surgeon. The author describes the state of this man: on the one hand, excruciating pain in his arm, and on the other, small children and a disabled person in line, who, probably, are not much better than him. When Nikitin is called out of line, his conscience does not allow him to enter the office.

There are always people who consider themselves superior to others, smarter, more beautiful, more worthy of receiving the benefits of life. Many believe that the whole world revolves around them, and other people are only a means for promotion or enrichment.

I think that the hero F.M. was a person with such views. Dostoevsky from the novel "Crime and Punishment" by Rodion Raskolnikov, who killed an old money-lender just to test his "Napoleonic" idea.

This is the same attitude to life and people and Helen Kuragina from "War and Peace" L.N. Tolstoy, who married Pierre Bezukhov for the sake of enrichment. Her tragic fate, in my opinion, is a fair punishment for the consumer attitude towards people.

And today, at every step, we meet selfish people who are trying to achieve their goals by any means - giving bribes, falsely accusing other people, even those who are ready to commit a crime ... I am convinced that their conscience will not leave them alone. Sooner or later they will be punished and repent of their deeds.

Thus, no matter how the circumstances develop, one should never forget about other people, because they are often even worse than us ...

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Direction "House" of the final essay 2015-2016 in literature: examples and samples

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The attitude of a person to the environment is already the person himself, his character, his philosophy, his soul, his attitude towards other people.

S.P. Zalygin

The concept of "home" is multifaceted. For each person, it has its own meaning, causes its own associations. For most people, this is a place associated with childhood, with relatives, mother. Thoughts about home evoke pleasant, touching memories: this is the beginning of a life journey; it is the aroma of freshly baked pancakes, the fibers of wool on an old sofa, children's drawings on the walls; mother's voice, warmth ...

Much in our life is determined by home and family: since childhood, we absorb the atmosphere of the hearth, family traditions. It is in the family, in the home, that moral values are instilled in us, a special vision of the world is formed. Over time, the concept expands, the street, the region, the country, the planet become native.

More than six billion people live on our planet. How many of them consider it their real home? It seems to many that for this you need to visit different countries, feel equally good anywhere in the world. However, it is not.

The earth is our common home. Every conscious person understands that everything in the world is interconnected. For centuries, we have been using the gifts of nature, we perceive it as a pantry, from which we can draw indefinitely. Such an attitude towards nature inevitably leads to the threat of an ecological catastrophe and the reason for everything is human activity. A striking example is the disaster at Chernobyl, at the nuclear power plant in Fukushima, the explosion of an oil platform in the Gulf of Mexico. These tragedies claimed the lives of many people and continue to poison life. The consequences will serve as a terrible reproach to all mankind for many years to come.

The problem of ecology is not new in the literature. Writers of different generations touch upon the theme of the relationship between man and nature, respect for nature in their works.

Back in the 70s, Chingiz Aitmatov raised the issue of the hopelessness of the path in which man destroys nature. She will surely take revenge with degeneration and lack of spirituality. The author considers this topic in such works as "After the Fairy Tale", "Snowstorm Stopover", "Plakha". The novel "The Scaffold" leaves a strong impression. This novel is a call to change your mind. It is interesting that the writer considers the problem of ecology inseparably from the problems of the decomposition of the human personality.

The novel begins with a description of the life of a wolf family that lives in its territory until a person appears. It senselessly and rudely destroys everything in its path. It becomes uncomfortable when you read about the barbaric roundup of saigas. Akbar's wolf cubs die in this massacre. The misfortunes of the she-wolf did not end there: five more wolf cubs die during a fire, which was specially set up by people to make it easier to extract expensive raw materials: “For the sake of this, you can gut the globe like a pumpkin.” The author understands the reason for such cruelty - greed, the struggle for one's own well-being.

And people do not suspect that nature will take revenge for everything and much earlier than they think. Nature, unlike people, has only one unfair action: it, taking revenge on people for ruin, does not understand whether you are guilty or not. The she-wolf, left alone through the fault of man, reaches out to people. She wants to transfer her unspent maternal tenderness to a human cub. This turns into a tragedy, but this time for people. Akbara is not to blame for the death of the boy. This man, in his cruel outburst of fear to the incomprehensible behavior of the she-wolf, shoots at her, but misses and kills his own son. The man paid for his cruelty.

B. Vasiliev's novel "Don't Shoot White Swans" also contains the idea of human responsibility for nature. The protagonist of the novel is worried about the behavior of visiting tourists. He sees a lake empty from poaching, an anthill doused with gasoline and set on fire by tourists for fun, white swans that once adorned the lake, and now boiled in a boiler.

I would like to end with the words of the Russian writer Y. Bondarev: “Sometimes it seems to self-satisfied humanity that, like a universal commander, it has subjugated, conquered, curbed nature ... A person forgets that in a long war, victory is deceptive, and wise nature is too patient. But in due time everything comes to an end. Nature menacingly raises a punishing sword.

We are killing our home. A living, developing and changing house, which originally had everything for a person. And sooner or later this house will cease to be one if we do not learn to take care of it.

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Each house bears the imprint of the personality of its inhabitants. The house is like a mold of the owner's soul. By the appearance of the house, by the atmosphere reigning in it, one can determine what kind of people live in it, what kind of character they have. No wonder many writers in their works pay great attention to the description of the houses of their characters.

So, in the poem by N.V. Gogol's "Dead Souls" gives a detailed description of the dwellings of landowners, and it is easy to see that all houses differ from each other in the same way as the characters of their owners differ.

Here is Manilov. The nature of this character is elusive, indefinite. He is "neither this nor that, neither in the city of Bogdan, nor in the village of Selifan." He does not deal with affairs on the estate, he is not interested in the fate of the peasants: “He never even went to the fields, the economy somehow went by itself.” This is an inactive dreamer who only does what he builds unrealizable plans: “Sometimes, looking from the porch at the courtyard and at the pond, he talked about how good it would be if all of a sudden to lead an underground passage from the house or build a stone bridge across the pond , on which there would be shops on both sides, and so that merchants would sit in them and sell various small goods needed by the peasants ... However, all these projects ended with only one word.

Manilov's house reflects his nature as accurately as possible. The reader draws attention to eloquent details: “Something was always missing in his house: in the living room there was beautiful furniture, upholstered in smart silk fabric, which, no doubt, was very expensive; but it was not enough for two armchairs, and the armchairs were upholstered simply with matting; however, for several years the host warned his guest every time with the words: "Do not sit on these chairs, they are not ready yet." This indicates the mismanagement of the owner, the inability to think through their actions and bring the matter to the end. The same qualities are also indicated by the fact that “in another room there was no furniture at all, although it was said in the first days after the marriage: “Darling, you will need to work tomorrow to put furniture in this room at least for a while.” But words remain just words, because Manilov is incapable of decisive action, achieving results. The absence of any serious interests is also evidenced by the “book, bookmarked on page 14, which he has been constantly reading for two years,” lying in his office.

Sobakevich has a completely different character. Outwardly, he looks like "a medium-sized bear" - strong, rude, clumsy. He is also a strong owner (“a man is a fist”), he knows all the peasants by name; making a list, indicates the merits of each. He does not miss an opportunity to deceive: he puts a woman on the list of souls for sale.

The whole house of Sobakevich is also distinguished by its durability: “Chichikov once again looked around the room and everything that was in it - everything was solid, clumsy to the highest degree.” All things in the house are similar to their owner: “In the corner of the living room stood a pot-bellied walnut bureau on absurd four legs: a perfect bear. The table, the armchairs, the chairs—everything was of the most heavy and restless quality; in a word, every object, every chair seemed to say: I, too, Sobakevich! or: I also look a lot like Sobakevich!” Even the paintings on the walls depict heroes “with such thick thighs and unheard-of mustaches that a shiver passed through the body ... The owner, being a healthy and strong man himself, seemed to want strong and healthy people to decorate his room too ... "

Thus, it is easy to conclude that the dwelling and everything that is in it characterizes the personality of the owners. We can say that our houses are truthful mirrors in which our souls are reflected.

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“Parental home is the beginning of all beginnings…”

Yu.Antonov

1. Introduction to the essay.

Home ... parental home. For each of us, it is of exceptional importance. After all, in the father's house a person is not only born, but also receives a spiritual and moral charge for the rest of his life, in the family those moral guidelines are laid in a person that he will need throughout his life.

It is here that a person feels and cognizes all the beginnings in life. “Everything in a person begins in childhood,” stressed the writer S. Mikhalkov. And what we will be in life - it depends on the family in which we grew up, on the spiritual atmosphere that reigned in the parental home.

The theme of the House is a cross-cutting theme of world fiction. Writers in their works reflected on the importance of the family in the upbringing of children.

2. The main body of the essay- literary arguments (analysis of literary works or specific episodes of works).

In the comedy "Undergrowth" Denis Ivanovich Fonvizin shows the estate of the noblemen Prostakovs. What is this house? It is not dominated by a man, the head of the family, but by Mrs. Prostakova. The atmosphere here is very difficult, because from morning to evening you can hear screams, abuse, and rude words here. The landowner watches everyone, cunning, lying, no one can appease her.

Prostakova has no human dignity. She scolds the tailor Trishka and her henpecked husband, who only indulges his wife. The wife is despotic towards her husband. For the sake of her son, she throws herself at her brother. She feels sorry for the overworked Mitrofan. Ignorant, cruel, narcissistic, the mistress builds family relationships from a position of strength. So, according to D. Fonvizin, despotism destroys everything human in a person.

But this vicious and cruel woman is a mother. She loves her Mitrofanushka very much. But in the atmosphere of the home run by Prostakova, her son could not learn anything good, so the comedy ends with the fact that the mistress of the house is not only deprived of the right to manage her estate, but, worst of all, Mitrofan betrays her: he refuses his mother. Starodum remarks: "Here are worthy fruits of evil-mindedness."

3. Second literary argument(analysis of the text of the work).

A completely different image of the house is created in the novel "War and Peace" by Leo Tolstoy. We see a large house on Povarskaya Street in the center of Moscow. A large and friendly family of Count Ilya Nikolaevich Rostov lives here. The doors are open to everyone. The family is musical, artistic, they love singing and dancing in the house.

The head of the house - Count Ilya Nikolaevich Rostov - is a lover of home holidays. He loves his family, trusts children. "He is the very dissolute goodness." “He was the most beautiful person,” - this is how acquaintances speak of him after his death.

Tolstoy emphasizes that the gift of an educator is also inherent in Countess Rostova. She is the first adviser to her daughters, generous, sincere in dealing with children, hospitable, open.

All this contributed to the fact that the parental home became a special atmosphere of spirituality. The life values that the Rostov children endured are worthy of respect - these are generosity, patriotism, nobility, respect, mutual understanding and support. Natasha, without hesitation, gives carts for the wounded, Nikolai saves Marya Bolkonskaya during a peasant riot, Petya volunteers to go to the front and dies.

4. Conclusion on the topic of the essay

Two houses - the house of Mrs. Prostakova at Fonvizin and the Rostovs at Tolstoy. And how different they are... The first is an anti-ideal, the second is an example of family comfort and happiness.

And I really want to believe that in our time there will be as many parents as possible who care about their family and a strong spiritual atmosphere in it. Let every home become a real source of moral guidelines for young people!

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"It's not money that makes a man a man, but his family"

Family is the most comfortable and warm place on earth. This is the place where you are truly happy. Where there are no enemies, but there are friends... the most sincere friends. Every person in the world should have a family. His own, completely different from the rest, so dear to the heart, a piece of something bright, where they will always understand and support. Everything in a person begins with the family. So what role does the family play in a person's life?

Of course, the family plays a huge role in a person's life. For example, in the play "Thunderstorm" A. N. Ostrovsky shows us the Kabanov family. What is this family? It is patriarchally ruled by Kabanikha, speaking in the family for the head of the house. Everyone must obey her unquestioningly - both the daughter-in-law and her own son, whom, by the way, despite her behavior, she loves and wishes him a wonderful family, but she is trying to build this ideal with her own hands. And in this, the household does not oppose her, that Tikhon “not a single step out of her will”, that Katerina “For me, my mother is the same as my own mother, what are you” ... As a result, we can conclude that in a patriarchal merchant family it is impossible to meet such a feeling as love. When Katerina, saying goodbye to Tikhon, in a fit of feeling throws herself on his neck, she receives an angry rebuke from her mother-in-law: “Why are you hanging around your neck, shameless! Don't say goodbye to your lover! He is your husband, head! You don’t know the order ... ”And therefore, for Katerina, her love for Boris was shameful, she could not forgive herself for such a sin, and went to suicide.

A completely different image of the family was recreated by Leo Nikolayevich Tolstoy in his novel War and Peace. Large friendly family of Ilya Nikolaevich Rostov. There is no division of power in this family. Everyone is equal in it. Love and understanding for each other lives in it - Both the count and the countess dote on their children, they are always their main advisers and spiritual mentors. And this is manifested in the character of already adult Natasha, Nikolai and Petya. Nikolai saves Marya Bolkonskaya, Natasha gives her blood home for carts, for the wounded, and Petya volunteers for the front.

As a result, we see that the family plays a big role for a person. She gives him the moral principles with which he will go through life. She brings up kindness and courage in him, as in the novel "War and Peace", or, on the contrary, shames him for feelings of love, as in the play "Thunderstorm". I believe that there is no bad family and it does not happen that the family has taught something bad. Each person can be characterized by his family, and there are no bad people, there are only not happy ones. Just like their families.

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The action of the novel "The White Guard" takes place in the terrible era of the civil war. Chaos reigns throughout the country. No one has confidence in the future. Shots are constantly heard approaching the city. Where can a person find peace when such a horror is happening around? For the Turbin family, their house has become an island of hope.

There are still roses on the table, and a woman is treated like a deity. The Turbin family lives according to the laws of duty and honor, which have long been respected in old Russia. Decency and fidelity to one's ideals have become a real cult in this family. Here they know how to take care of friends and family, appreciate their loved ones.

All Turbines are people of high culture. They listen to Faust and read Dostoyevsky. However, even small details emphasize the alarming state of everyone around. The piano has long been silent, and Alexei Turbin is reading "Demons". If we remember that this novel tells about revolutionaries, then we can say that the choice of the book is not accidental.

From the first pages, the reader sees how the Turbins courageously survive the death of their mother. Even then it becomes clear that life has irreparably changed. The clock continues to run, there is a tiled stove, the whole family is trying with all their might to keep the house cozy. So far they have succeeded, but for how long?

Elena's husband fled the city, but he was always somewhat of a stranger in this family. He lacked stamina, honesty, courage. Alexei's friends turned out to be much closer to Turbin in spirit: Myshlaevsky, Shervinsky, Karas. There was always a place for them in the house. They knew about all the sorrows and joys of this amazing family.

Bulgakov's novel is full of small everyday details. What was contemptuously called philistinism in later Soviet literature is described in The White Guard with amazing warmth and touchingness. The reader knows all the details of the former way of life in the Turbins' house. They fulfill the last will of the mother, who bequeathed to live together. It is mutual assistance within the family that helps the heroes overcome all adversity.

The world, behind the creamy curtains of this house, is gradually plunging into the confusion of war, losing its former colors. Here they continue to read and sincerely smile at each other, boldly looking into the face of the impending danger. The warmth that reigns in this family was instantly felt by the arrival of Lariosik. He strives with all his might to be useful in order to stay in such an attractive house of the Turbins. At first, he is perceived as a ridiculous stranger, but soon he becomes his own. It is noteworthy that Lariosik began to be trusted rather quickly, but Talberg remained a stranger, having lived here for several years. Why did it happen? I think it's all about sincerity. Lariosik wholeheartedly accepted the rules by which the Turbin family lives, and for Talberg they have always remained an empty sound.

In his novel, Bulgakov often uses oppositions and contrasts. He shows the reader the dull apartment of the engineer Lisovich, so that the comfort and warmth of the Turbinsky house would be felt even more sharply. They don't sing songs in Vasilisa's house. Friends don't come here. Fear reigns here, not love. Lisovich is ready for any betrayal just to save his own skin. This man has nothing sacred.

Panic reigns everywhere. Only the house of the Turbins remains a beacon promising peace. All sorts of people come here. What is so attractive and magical in this house? The answer is simple - true love lives here. The desire to save one's family and friends, without deviating from the principles of honor and duty, can be called one of the most important moral ideas of the novel The White Guard.

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The concept of "Home" is diverse. For each person, it has its own meaning, causes its own associations. For most people, this is a place associated with childhood, with relatives, with mom. Thoughts of home evoke pleasant, touching memories.

For example, in the comedy "Undergrowth" Denis Ivanovich Fonvizin shows the landowner's house of the Prostakov nobles. It is not dominated by a man, the head of the family, but by Mrs. Prostakova. The atmosphere in this house is very heavy, because from morning to evening screams, abuse, and rude words are heard here. The landowner is watching everyone, is cunning, lying, no one can appease her. But this is a vicious and cruel woman - a mother. She loves her Mitrofanushka very much. In the atmosphere of a home run by a mother, a son could not learn anything good from his mother. He did not receive a strong moral charge, which is so necessary. Such a situation in the parental home cannot give Mitrofan good and strong moral lessons.

A completely different house is the house of the Rostov family, which Leo Tolstoy shows us in the novel War and Peace. A large and friendly family of Count Ilya Nikolaevich Rostov lives here. Happy house at the Rostovs. Children feel parental tenderness, affection and happiness. The values of life that the children took from the Rostovs' parental home are worthy of respect - these are generosity, patriotism, nobility, respect, mutual understanding and support.

Happiness in the home depends on the parents themselves and the moral and spiritual atmosphere that is created in the parental home, in the family ... And I really want to believe that in our time there will be as many parents as possible who take care of their home and strong spiritual atmosphere in it. Let every home be a real source of happiness for young people!

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Happy is he who is happy at home.

L.N. Tolstoy

The concept of "home" is multifaceted and for each of us it has its own associations. For some, the house is associated primarily with parents, for some with friends, and for some, the house is only a place of residence. Nevertheless, for each of us, this is the place where we spend most of our time and where we return again and again. So how can a person have a house?

Undoubtedly, each person always has his own house, special, causing his own associations and concepts, sometimes even completely opposite. Many Russian and foreign writers worked on the formation of images of the houses of their heroes. Summarizing the images obtained, we can conclude that a person who has mutual understanding, love and support of loved ones in his house is most often a happy person. A striking example of such a house and such relationships is the house of the Rostov family from Leo Tolstoy's novel War and Peace. The head of the family is a smiling and good-natured Count Ilya Nikolaevich Rostov and his wife, Countess Rostova, who loves her husband and children, is a wonderful hostess. Undoubtedly, the Rostov children, who were brought up in such an environment, saw and felt all the warmth of relationships in the family from childhood. Petya received a decent upbringing and became a real man, demonstrating this by going to the front as a volunteer in case of emergency. Natasha, from childhood, feeling her need for the house, helped and supported her mother in everything after Petya's death. On the example of the Rostov house, we can say that this is the place where people are happy and everyone is always welcome.

Unfortunately, such a conclusion cannot be drawn for all families and homes described in the literature. Sometimes a place that is completely hated for him becomes a home for a person, oppressing him and giving rise to aggression. “It was a tiny cell that had the most miserable appearance ...”, this is how the house of Rodion Raskolnikov appears to us in the novel “Crime and Punishment” by Fyodor Mikhailovich Dostoevsky. This is not even a house, but just a small, dark and dirty closet in which the protagonist of the novel lived his life. Perhaps it was the situation in this closet that prompted him to commit this brutal murder.

Thus, we can conclude that the house is important in the life and destiny of a person. It is the house that helps a person to understand that someone needs him and someone is always waiting for him. No wonder it is noted that "happy is the one who is happy at home."

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Each person strives to have or has a place where he lives with his closest and dearest people, where he is always loved and expected, where he feels peace of mind. All this can be summed up in one word. House. It is with the house that one of the most joyful and pleasant moments in life is connected. The house gives us the meaning of life, spiritual strength to deal with the difficulties of life. Perhaps that is why the theme of the house can be traced in the works of art of all times.

The image of the house in Sholokhov's story "The Fate of a Man" made a special impression on me. Analyzing the feelings, thoughts, actions of Andrei Sokolov, I realized how important the house is for him, what difficulties he had to go through in order to return to his native land and then find a new home.

First, the author shows the hero living a peaceful life. Andrey had a wonderful family: a “wife-friend” who loved her husband and always treated him kindly. Even if Andrey came drunk from work, she tried to get him the best piece of bread. Smart, beautiful, well-educated children in school. And every day Andrei tried to return home as soon as possible after working at the factory in order to spend more time with his family. Soon he himself built a house for the family, a large, two-room one. Andrei was satisfied with his life. Indeed, what else is needed for happiness?

But then came the war. Andrei, like many Soviet people, goes to the front to defend his home, his family, as well as the common home - the Motherland. Love for the motherland and family helps the hero survive these years. What kind of difficulties did not fall to his lot: he was wounded, he was also captured. But the belief that somewhere out there, far away, they are looking forward to you and praying for your fate to God, strengthened Andrey's spirit, did not let him lay down his hands and made him fight for his life and for the lives of his loved ones. He often talked to his wife about himself, reassured the children that he would be back soon. And he always found support in the family.

However, when Andrei returns, he sees that instead of the house there is only one "deep hole filled with rusty water." “There was a family, a home, all this was molded for years, and collapsed in a single moment,” the hero says about himself. Soon he learns about the surviving son. But here, too, fate played a cruel joke on him - Andrei's son was killed by a sniper on May 9, the day the war ended. The hero has lost everything that was the meaning of life for him.

And then in his life, finally, after everything experienced, a ray of light, hope appears: an orphan boy at the teahouse. Andrei decides to adopt the child and says that he is his father. How the boy rejoices, how tightly he embraces his "father"! And Andrew himself is very happy. Here it is. There is a new hope for a happy life, a new family, and soon a newly built house will appear.

Home for Andrey Sokolov is a family, the most important thing in life, his support, what is called personal happiness. The whole life of the hero, its meaning is inextricably linked with the house. Indeed, a person without a home is an unhappy person, he has nothing to “grab” on, nothing to fight for. The house is the basis of human existence.

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Undoubtedly, the family plays an important role in the development and formation of the individual. For each person, the family has its own, exceptional value. For some, this is a place where you are understood and loved, where you want to return again and again, where you feel that you are happy, as L.N. Tolstoy “happy is he who is happy at home”, and for others, the family is nothing more than just people with whom you have to live and a place you have to return to. So what role does the family play in the formation of personality?

Education is the main function of the family. After all, their future fate directly depends on what kind of upbringing children receive in the family. The way a person's life will develop in the future should be laid down already in childhood. In domestic literature, one can find a huge number of examples of how the educational function of the family leaves an imprint on the future fate of a person. On the one hand, for example, in L.N. Tolstoy's "War and Peace" we can see two of the brightest examples of worthy upbringing of children. In the first case, this is the Rostov family, led by a sensitive and caring Count Ilya Nikolaevich Rostov and his wife, Countess Rostova, a sincere, hospitable hostess and a mother who loves her children. An example of a worthy upbringing is the fact that, in case of emergency, the Rostovs’ son Petya, without fear and doubt, volunteers for the war, where he dies, or Natasha, who, after the death of her brother, takes on most of her mother’s grief, cares for her, supports helps her in everything, as befits a loving daughter. In the second case, this is the Bolkonsky family, where Prince Andrei, like Petya, goes to war without a grain of salt.

On the other hand, there are many examples in the literature of improper upbringing, which ultimately leads to deviant behavior of a person. An example is the work of A.N. Ostrovsky's "Thunderstorm", in which the influence of Marfa Ignatievna Kabanova's mother on her son Tikhon, who, already an adult, cannot make any decision without the advice and guidance of his mother, is very clearly visible. Even in a conversation with his wife Katerina during their farewell, he repeats everything after Kabanova, who, in turn, is happy to force her son to order his wife “to honor her mother-in-law like her own mother! .. So that she doesn’t sit idly by like a lady!”.

Thus, the family, indeed, plays a very important role in the formation of a person, from childhood investing and developing in us the knowledge, norms of behavior and character traits that can help us all become truly worthy people in the future.

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What does home mean to a person? It is important for someone to know that they are waiting for him somewhere, it is important for someone to take care of their loved ones, and someone, living alone, values comfort and solitude. A person who does not have a home can hardly feel completely happy.

Many writers reflect on the problem of the psychological discomfort of a person who has nowhere to return. In J. Rowling's Harry Potter books, the protagonist ends up being raised by his aunt and uncle. On the one hand, he lives with his relatives, and on the other hand, he feels like a stranger there. Aunt and uncle could not love anyone, not even their son, who was given an ugly upbringing. And they are hostile to the Potters due to the fact that Harry's mother (Petunia Dursley's sister) married a wizard. As a result, Harry finds his real home at the Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry. It is here that he meets his friends and learns to distinguish good from evil, to make responsible decisions. Over time, he no longer needs to return to the Dursleys, and he spends his holidays either at school or at Ron's with his friends.

In the novel by L.N. Tolstoy's "War and Peace" is also a hero who does not have a native corner. The son of the richest nobleman (Count Bezukhov), Pierre was an illegitimate child. The elder Bezukhov replaced his paternal love with rich content. After spending many years of life behind. border, Pierre returns to Moscow just before the death of his father. The family did not value Pierre, and he was not used to respecting his father, so he plunged headlong into drunken fun. Moscow society condemns him and considers him ill-mannered, ungrateful and careless. But what can you expect from

a person who has not seen true love for himself? Pierre finds his home after many years in marriage with Natasha Rostova, who grew up in a warm, loving, hospitable family. The wife gives him a sense of need, significance; Finally, Pierre is expected at home!

So what does a home mean to a person? The answer is simple: home is a place where you feel needed, where you are loved and expected. No wonder people say: "Home is where your heart is."

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The image of the native Home is a conceptually important concept in the work of Russian classics. It is the native House that is the main component in the creation by the author of a special image of his Motherland. A person has four supports in life: a house with a family, work, people with whom to rule holidays and weekdays together, and the land on which your house stands, ”wrote V. Rasputin.

The theme of home and family is one of the cross-cutting themes both in world literature in general and in Russian literature in particular. Its echoes can be heard even in ancient Russian works of art. Princess Yaroslavna, weeping on the Putivl wall, yearns for her beloved husband Igor (“The Tale of Igor's Campaign”).

Through all the trials of life, Prince Peter of Murom and his wife, a wise woman from the common people, Fevronia ("The Tale of Peter and Fevronia of Murom"), carry love and fidelity, and at the end of their lives, the heroes who have become monks and live in different monasteries even leave life in one day, and their bodies, as the legend says, end up in the same coffin, is this not proof of the devotion of husband and wife to each other ?!

Yu.M. Lotman wrote: "History passes through the house of a man, through his private life."

This topic is raised in the Bible, in the works of A.S. Pushkin, M.Yu. Lermontov, M.A. Bulgakov, A. Vampilov, V. Rasputin, A.I. Solzhenitsyn. (“The Parable of the Prodigal Son”, the story “The Stationmaster”, “The Song about the Merchant Kalashnikov ...”, the novels “The White Guard” and “The Master and Margarita”, the play “The Elder Son”, the story “Farewell to Matyora”, the story "Mother's Yard".)

The prodigal son, repenting of his sinful life, returns to his father, regaining his lost home. Remember the description of the house in the story "The Stationmaster" before and after Dunya's departure. While Dunya lives with his father, the house is clean and comfortable. “She kept the house: what to clean up, what to cook, she had time for everything.” And when the daughter left, everything changed in the house of Samson Vyrin, "everything around showed dilapidation and neglect." The merchant Kalashnikov, the protagonist of the poem, protects the family, which is the symbol of the House, which goes back to the Domostroy tradition.

In these two novels, the writer gives two opposite images of the house - "home-shelter" and "dead house". A “good apartment” in the “White Guard” has its own space, its own smell, its own face, its own voices, and most importantly, family traditions are observed in it. "The image of the dead house" in the novel "The Master and Margarita" is associated with the theme of the moral dying of people. The theme of the house as a symbol of the universe. The playwright himself, who lost his father in early childhood, perceived the relationship between father and son especially painfully and sharply. In the story of Rasputin, the image of the House is symbolic. He is soulful, alive, feeling.

Daria cleans him up like a dead man before the funeral. The key words in the story are the words "house", "hut". The house, built “long ago and soundly”, is also a preserved fragment of “the most interior (real) Russia”, as if defending itself from the pressure of external lies and absurdity.

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A real home for people who. The role of the house in a person's life or why you are stuck in a rented apartment

The problem of fathers and children

The problem of education

Children's neglect of parents

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