About self-pity and loss of vitality. Luule Viilma

Dissatisfaction, anger. Power and arrogance. You can rule by fear, threat, warning, accusation, suspicion, tears, etc. Miserliness. Lack of joy in relation to oneself and others. Unwillingness to understand and believe in their feelings. Inferiority complex, denial of one's own physical needs (as well as denial of love and sex). Dependence towards parents and other people. Close relationship and communication with the mother. Unwillingness to be healthy.

IV. The heart chakra, at the level of the heart. THE MOST IMPORTANT CHAKRA! Green.

A feeling of love for everyone and everything and for life. Self-reliance, helping, positive self-sacrifice. Willpower that determines our lives.

Action on parts of the body: Upper back, heart, lungs, circulation, arms, skin, eyes.

Common stresses that block the chakra: Frustrated love feelings - they don't like me I'm not worth love. Feelings of guilt towards a loved one. I am not reciprocated. Suppressed love. Everyone prevents me from living the way I should. The world is cruel, and the right of the big and strong reigns here. I don't care and I do what I want. I live only by pushing myself, because it is necessary and it is not necessary to wait for the best.

Chakra number, name and color: V. Throat chakra, at the level of the larynx, blue.

The energies underlying the force: Communication, openness. Autonomy, independence. Inspiration, adaptability to life. Standing up for your own rights. Luck. Feeling of respect.

Action on parts of the body: Tops of the lungs, bronchi, larynx, vocal cords, jaw, tongue.

Common stresses that block the chakra: Problems in communicating with the world. Nervous assessment, feeling of helplessness. All the feelings that catch the throat and cause choking with tears. Inability, inability to live one's personal life, because someone or something interferes. The inability to accept what life offers. Misunderstanding of your desires. Blaming others. The belief that everyone wants bad things for me. Nobody cares about me. Feeling of rejection. Fear of failure. Defaming others.

Chakra number, name and color: VI. The forehead chakra, or third eye, at forehead level, blue (indigo).

The energies underlying the force: Recognition of the visible and the invisible. Intuition, clairvoyance. The emergence of ideas. Fulfillment of desires. Attitude towards oneself from the side of the world.

Action on parts of the body: Cerebellum, lower part of the cerebrum, ears, nose, paranasal sinuses, eyes, nervous system, face.

Common stresses that block the chakra: Conflicts between the world of feelings and the world of reason. Desire to get more. Touchiness. dissatisfaction with their appearance. Helplessness in making or carrying out plans. The collapse of rainbow plans. Representations that do not correspond to reality, or negative. Fear of responsibility. Reluctance to do this or that. Protest against everything. Instability of feelings.

Chakra number, name and color: VII. Short chakra, on the crown, purple-white.

The energies underlying the force: Perfection. Knowledge of the All-Unity. A felt connection with one's spirituality is a belief in one's spiritual abilities.

Action on parts of the body: Large brain, skull.

Life begins with a person, and a person originates from the environment, whose name is the family. Or, more accurately, parents. Not knowing how to be ourselves, we depend on our parents even when we become adults. Or rather, from their character, and hence stress. Without realizing it, we doom ourselves to a miserable position. We stop living our own lives and start living in a world of parental stress.

Inability and inability to interpret their own needs to parents turn into inability and inability to explain them to the rest of the world. So it turns out that we are born to assimilate those energies, the essence of which we failed to understand in a previous life, and in practice we only cultivate them. Crushed under their weight, we go to the next world, and in the next life we have to do the same in order to complete the unfinished business. If we fail this time, we will come again and again, until we understand the meaning of life, until we understand that our life is determined not by the environment (it can be anything), but our attitude towards this environment . When a person realizes that he sees only himself in his neighbors, he learns from them and thanks God that they exist. Seeing their vices, he is happy that he is pointed out to his own vices, and gets rid of them. He begins to understand himself better. Stops considering himself good or bad and treats himself simply as a person with his own little flaws, without which life would have no meaning.

As long as we are not aware of this, we, like crazy, rush faster, higher and further and do not understand why the result is the opposite. If we achieve what we want, then we do not experience happiness. When we gain something, we lose something, as if we are paying a duty. Often this duty is health. We stand helplessly in front of a broken trough, and tears involuntarily well up in our eyes. No strength to move on. No strength to fight life. We are helpless and sad.

By exerting willpower, we deplete our vitality, but even so, we do not achieve what we want. We find ourselves in miserable position. How else to call the situation when the child is fighting with the parents, and the parents are fighting with the child, not realizing that this is a fight against themselves. The struggle to prove that it is not I who is to blame, but the neighbor is to blame, strengthens the feeling of guilt. Getting into the position of the accused, the child is forced to fight for freedom.

Who ever emerged from the battle as a winner knows the sweet taste of victory. He is convinced of his own superiority and wants to experience this feeling again and again. One battle with his parents, followed by a second and a third, and there, you see, a freedom fighter was formed. Freedom fighters can fight for freedom because nothing binds them. They have already achieved freedom from home and family. Since they did not find happiness from this, they fight on. They struggle with life, but do not realize that if they win, it will mean death. Freedom, in the name of which the struggle is being waged, is death, but the fighters do not know this and do not want to know.

Any the struggle of life is in fact the struggle of man against himself until life is destroyed. After each battle, the wrestler laments his miserable situation and again rushes into battle to make his situation worse.

After the shed tears, it seems to become easier on the soul, but there is no desire to get up and move on. Or maybe no strength? You won't understand right away. The body loses as much weight as the liquid is shed. Logical, right? Since the body is a mirror of the soul, for some time it becomes easier on the soul. Why is there no strength to move? Because the lesson of self-pity has not been learned, which is why the former severity instantly rolls over, only a hundred times stronger.

Luule Viilma

Our hidden opportunities, or how to succeed in life

When you pick up a book on spiritual development, always ask yourself, "Do I need this?" Listen to yourself, and if the inner voice says what you need, open the book, but not before.

I realized that it is necessary to communicate with stress, and, having taken up this, I realized that we are talking about the most ordinary communication. I've found that it makes no difference whether you're talking to a person or talking to stressors. I helped myself, helped family and friends, until it dawned on me to put the acquired knowledge on paper.

Introduction

On January 20, 2002, as a result of a car accident on the Riga-Tallinn highway, the heart of a person full of creative powers and plans stopped beating. The death of L. Viilma was a heavy loss for everyone who knew and loved her, for whom she was a teacher and a sympathetic friend. A lot of time has already passed since the death of Dr. Luule Viilma, but her books are in demand, her advice, knowledge, experience have helped and continue to help millions of people become healthy and happy. Of course, our readers have a lot of new and new questions, they write letters to the editor - and there is no one to answer them ...

And so we (the editors) took the liberty (with the permission of L. Viilma's heirs) to create new books using the available material and adding previously unused material.

In Nature, including human nature, absolutely everything is laid down so that he can live his life happily, succeed and get what he really needs.

To do this, a person only needs:

- to understand, discarding everything superfluous that need in fact;

– learn to wish only with a pure heart, without destructive malice and envy, with love for yourself and others;

- discover hidden opportunities in yourself and learn how to use them.

Think about your life. How many events in it, remembering which warms the soul, and how many of those from which the soul becomes heavy. And now imagine that you are connected with each event through an invisible thread, or energy connection. How many whites are positive and how many blacks are negative!

We cannot live the lives of other people, we need to understand this, otherwise things will get worse and worse. Causes are always followed by consequences. A person comes to develop himself spiritually.

If we do not know how, first of all, to develop spiritually, that is, to understand through feelings; if we do not have time to understand everything that is happening near or far (we see on TV, read in a book or newspaper); if we don’t know how to understand what is written about me (my attitude to this is important, I don’t know how to understand now why this happened), but we begin to discuss, blame, call bad, demand punishment or something else, then this means that we have not accepted their spiritual lesson, and then we need material obstacles, hardships, sufferings, illnesses in order to learn to develop spiritually through them.

Some events give strength, while others take it away. They are called tension from everyday events, or stress. It is common knowledge that there are problems caused by stress, but can you believe that all Are problems caused by stress? There are diseases caused by stress, but can you believe that all Are diseases caused by stress? There is only one way to get rid of this bad. HOW?

WITH THE HELP OF FORGIVENESS!

When stress is released through forgiveness, the problem goes away, the disease goes away.

Nobody doubts the existence of life. And at the same time, to the question “What is life?” no one can answer. Regardless of religion, we are the children of materialism, and it will take a long time before the word "life" is directly identified in our minds with spiritual life. As long as we bulge our eyes and stare at matter as at the primary substance, it will be forced to turn our head by force - well, if it does not break our neck - to where, upon careful examination, you can see the meaning of life. This is how matter teaches us to treat life correctly. He teaches hard. Maybe we will understand that life is something more than our body, but by that time the vital forces will completely dry up, and the body will become decrepit. And then, perhaps, the question will arise: what is this force that set my body in motion, and where did it go? Turning in the last torment of the soul to this nameless beginning and praying from the bottom of our hearts for its return, we may well feel that the prayer turned out to be the most effective means of allowing the body to regain strength. And, probably, we will understand that it was not someone who helped us, but ourselves.

Along the way, minding my own business, I constantly encountered people who think very differently than I do. At the slightest injury or slight indisposition, their first thought is to immediately provide themselves with the best medical care. It often happens that all over the world there is no such high-class medicine that would suit them.

Such people accept the wonderful idea of “help yourself” immediately, however, as life shows, this happens only in words. It has been my observation that a person who praises any self-help theory, including the one I propose, does not actually use it. And if you tell him the truth, he will be offended, because, according to his understanding, knowledge is use. For most, interest in self-help fades quickly; if the desired result does not come immediately, the person loses faith and hope. People without faith know, that one can only fall quickly, while it takes time to rise. But from this knowledge, faith in them, however, will not return.

Like it or not, there is nothing more difficult than helping yourself. Besides, this work never ends. From this realization, a person comes to the conclusion that others should help him. There are a great many reasons why a person entrusts his life to others. The most banal is that he himself does not know how to do something. There is an excuse for inability: I'm not an expert. And the fact that an outsider, perhaps, also does not know how, a person does not think or does not want to think. The other one must be able to. If he does not know how, it is just right to call him to account. However, no helper is able to penetrate the soul of a person in need of help. That is, he is not able to live for him his spiritual life, which is real life. Earthly life is only a mirror image of spiritual life.

To help yourself, you need to know your own feelings.

Wrong thinking leads to wrong action, and sickness is a reflection of this. The physical man is able to understand if he is taught to do so. It only takes desire. The will determines the result.

Whoever looks for someone to blame outside himself will not recover and problems will not go away.

You can start changing yourself right now, it's never too late. But it is better if we know the root cause, then the result is achieved faster and easier.

Everything I have said should explain to you the origin of your disease and your problems in such a way that it is possible to immediately begin treatment and get rid of problems. Find only time to think logically.

I also want to emphasize that this teaching is one of many possible ones. The person himself must find the right one. All of them are parts of a single whole.

Remember Christ, who came to teach people the simple wisdom of forgiveness and love, but to whom the people from their stupidity did not listen. Christians today preach that Christ came to atone for the sins of people by His suffering. And what was he to do? The people did not want to accept his teachings, the people wanted the sins to disappear by themselves. The people continue to commit sins and all hope that Christ will redeem them again and again. But did the sufferings of Christ deliver anyone from adversity? They didn't deliver. Only sincere faith in forgiveness and Divine love helped.

Christ set the example. He taught to live with forgiveness and love in the heart. His ascent to Calvary only showed how difficult the path of a teacher is. You can turn inside out, but before a person feels the weight of his cross, he does not begin to think. Life cannot and should not be easy.

Humanity has acquired too little intelligence in two millennia.

Fortunately, the number of exceptions is growing. Exceptions sanctify the Earth.

Do it and you!

Forgiveness is the only liberating force in the universe.

Forgiveness of the true cause frees a person from illnesses, life's difficulties and other bad things.

About the inevitability of the investigation

As it was said in my books: Unity = God = Energy. This means that energy comes to us from the All-Unity from God. It is given to us by birthright. We have the highest susceptibility in a dream, because then our soul is pure. It depends on us how we will dispose of this energy - whether we increase it or destroy it.

This book literally opened my eyes to the causes of all my ailments. So simply, understandably, with love, the author brings us to understand the most important thing - we ourselves are the creators of both our own illness and our health ...

Ivan K., N. Novgorod

How much garbage, how much dirt, how much rubbish I found in my soul thanks to this book. And not only discovered, but began to clean up. The mere awareness of the problems significantly improved my condition, helped me quit smoking and get rid of fears. Now I purposefully work on getting rid of the disease.

S. L., Moscow

Viilma's books are priceless for parents, because the present and future health of our children depends only on us. Now we have every opportunity to raise a healthy generation!

Evgeny P., Arkhangelsk

Getting rid of the bad habits of the body was not so difficult, but getting rid of the bad thoughts that corrode the soul is not an easy job. But I believe that everything will work out, because Dr. Viilma, who, albeit invisibly, is always with us, leads us along the path to health!

Julia T., Samara

Thanks to the compilers of the book for every word Dr. Luule brought to us, for these waves of Light and Love pouring from the pages of the book!

Marta G., St. Petersburg

A wonderful book for those who do not want to get sick anymore, who want to keep a healthy body and spirit for many years!

Svetlana B., Kaliningrad

Don't ruin yourself!
Foreword

In 2002, the life of a wonderful person and an amazing doctor who healed not only the body, but also the soul, Luula Viilma, ended. This, of course, is an irreplaceable loss for all who knew her, for those whom she helped, for all her followers and ordinary readers.

But the books of Luule Viilma remained and there were people who painstakingly study her heritage. Until now, the flow of letters addressed to Viilma has not dried up, there are still those who hope for her help. After all, life goes on and sets us new and new tasks.

That is why the heirs of Luule Viilma made a difficult decision - on the basis of existing manuscripts to publish new books in which certain issues are considered in more detail.

Here is one of these books.

All thoughts, all words in it belong to Luula Viilma herself, and her wisdom will help the reader figure out how to make their life better!

Luule Viilma was sure that everyone is responsible for their own life, and, therefore, only they can change it. She said: “People are different. Some are stupid, some are lazy, and some are just useless. There are those who have all these qualities, and their lives are going well. For example, such a person works side by side with smart, hardworking and energetic people, but the business falls apart. Bankruptcy is declared. One workaholic dies because of this. The second goes to the hospital. The third is treated at home. The fourth is behind bars. And he, this fool and sloth, walks around with his chest puffed out, and healthy as a bull. Why is life so unfair?

No, life is just fair. Life reveals truth. Life shows that this person is able to overcome any obstacles, because he sincerely believes that there are no hopeless situations.

Even if you have bad habits now, you can get rid of them, realizing that they are only symptoms, and the causes lie much deeper. Even if your life seems to be going downhill, only bad things happen in it, you can stop it.

Here is what Wilma said:

“At the beginning of each conversation, I say what a person needs to know in order to understand me. In order to understand anyone or anything at all, you need to remember:

There are no bad people, but in every person there is bad.

We are in this world to fix the bad!

Everyone is to correct their bad - this is life.

Life goes on as long as there is something bad that needs to be corrected.

Simply put, life goes on as long as there is work!

So, believe that you can change your life, learn a lesson from all the bad things that happened to you, stop ruining yourself - start working on yourself and your life right now.

The root cause of everything

The face of our character

I discover the secrets of the spiritual world, I find the knowledge that every person has inside, and every person has all the energies that are only in the Universe. If you either read about stresses, or hear about them, or see how some person shows what his stresses do to him, that is, shows something good or bad with his behavior, and you can see and hear this, then this He speaks your stress, because we see only ourselves everywhere. When we develop further, that is, we release from ourselves (and each of us is love), we release certain stresses from love, then we do not see these stresses in others. Because this other person, even with his own specific stress, passes through me, as it were, or past me, without touching me. I do not provoke the manifestation of his stress with my certain stress.

We can release any stress, we can release our original stresses, of which there are only two, and they are called: my mother and my father. Because, besides their energies, when I come into this world, I have no other energies. When we die in a past life, then the energy that we possessed at the time of death is used to come into this life, which begins from the moment of conception. So my mum and my dad together are me.

If I am a woman, then I am a woman because I have a female body, that is, a female material shell. The material body is the outside, and inside I have my father. Why are women so resilient, why do women around the world live so long compared to men? Thanks to men, lovely women. They are the resilience that holds us from within.

And why are men so fragile, why do they leave this world so quickly? Because they are only outwardly men, but inside they are women. And it is very, very important how you, dear men, treat your mother. Because you are this woman, and as far as you understand your mother, that is, treat her out of love, you also see women as they are. You see not only their character, which is only accumulated positive and negative knowledge.

Symbolically, the energy of character can be imagined as a hedgehog. Have you ever seen the spines of a hedgehog: how are they arranged, are they parallel or intersecting? When the needles rise, then their tips rise, which converge at the bottom like scissors, right? And they go down the same way. This is what says that in the character of a person there is the same as in everything on the globe, that is, two ends: good and bad. And all these stresses that accumulate inside us can become so big that they cannot fit in a person. How to live? Let's say, a "tower" of one energy has grown, a "tower" of another energy, still different energies in the amount n+ 1. And we, people, spiritual beings, came into this world to take care that our stresses do not grow so great that they would become more than a person himself. And if they do, they turn into character traits. And it is often said that everything can be changed in this world, but the character will remain.

To change the character means to rethink life and wisely free yourself from the bad in order to achieve the desired goal. It's harder than you think and easier than you think. And those who do not learn to do things smartly will be forced to learn through suffering. Another person once again lives his life in torment in order to correct one of his character traits.

Unfortunately, we will eventually die from such a character, because our diseases and our sufferings that accompany diseases are the face of our character. And to justify myself by the fact that I have such a character is pointless, just stupid. When a person consoles himself, justifies himself with his character, then this person does not understand who he really is, he confuses the character and himself. And so gradually, since like attracts like, those energies that we already have inside grow more and more, as they attract similar energies to themselves. And these “hedgehog needles” are growing more and more, higher, longer. And then it does not matter whether we encounter positive or negative irritations, we, like a hedgehog, raise our “needles”. And what do we do? Of course we protect ourselves. And a person who defends himself is a person who does not know how to live, he does not know how to be himself, that is, a person. He does not know how to be love, he wants to love and wants to be loved. And how can he love if he himself does not exist? Or how to love him if he is not there? Then they will come to love his body, his friend. And he sells his body. And by this he proves to everyone that he loves and has the right to demand that he be loved. And the disappointments are getting worse and worse. Because man, a spiritual being, confuses the two levels. A stressed person is like a hedgehog. Everyone has stress, but not all people are stressed.

When we are under stress, when we have really fallen into such a deep hole, then we can release stresses, and our stresses decrease, decrease and in one moment shorten like hedgehog needles. What then will be our hedgehog? It will be so soft, so sweet ... And if we plunge all these needles into his skin one by one and do not let it come out, what will happen then? Before the hedgehog dies, he will pounce on you even more like a wild beast. And even after death, this corpse can be so dirty that you will exude a stench for a century, and maybe even longer.

All stresses originate from the fear that "I am not loved."

The main stressors are guilt, fear and anger. Accumulating, they grow into each other, mutually combine and can form an intricate mishmash of diseases. Guilt turns into fear, fear turns into anger. Anger destroys a person.

The chain of stresses is set in motion by the fear of being guilty. Nobody wants to be guilty. Therefore, the surest way to subjugate a person who wants to be good is to appeal to his conscience. So a tyrant who plays benefactor is able to completely squeeze the will to live out of a person, without realizing that he is doing badly. And a person dies, not knowing how to protect himself.

Basic stresses and their interaction

Any stress eventually turns into anger

1) Whoever has a feeling of guilt is accused, and he begins to be afraid and turns into an accuser himself. Accusation is malice. Any evaluation, comparison, comparison is essentially an accusation.

2) In whom fear has settled, they frighten him, and he begins to frighten others even for the purpose of teaching or warning. This is already a hidden malice, or a struggle for life.

3) Whoever has anger in him is angry, and he himself begins to be angry. Malice can be:

open, or leading to crime,

hidden, or causing disease.

Hidden malice can be:

benevolent causing benign disease processes

malicious causing malignancy or cancer.

No one voluntarily recognizes himself as malicious, and yet the proportion of malignant diseases in the world is rapidly increasing. Why? Because everyone wants to be good. The desire to live in a world of illusions or in air castles of dreams sooner or later ends with the fact that a person falls from heaven to earth, that is, falls ill. This book talks a lot about this.

A) Feelings of guilt are stresses of the heart. They make a person susceptible to disease, but in themselves they are not yet a disease. Feelings of guilt weaken.

B) Fears are the stresses of the kidneys and adrenal glands. Fear attracts the bad, but in itself is not yet a disease. Fear makes you helpless.

B) Anger is a disease in itself. Anger settles where the movement of energy is interrupted by fear. What is the malice, such is the disease. Evil destroys.

Fear is located in the body as follows:

Fear inhibits or completely blocks human willpower, or the will to live. They can accumulate slowly and imperceptibly, or they can, like a lightning strike, bring a person to the grave. Fear causes inability, misunderstanding, incomprehension, inability, impossibility, etc. Constantly repeated inability becomes, in the end, unwillingness. Ignorance is fear. Reluctance is malice.

Malice can be recognized by five signs that can appear separately and which are not considered a disease. But if they appear in combination with at least one more, then they are considered a disease. These signs include:

pain- the anger of the search for the guilty;

redness- the anger of finding the guilty;

temperature- the malice of condemning the guilty. The most dangerous to life is the anger of self-accusation, which most often arises from the fact that a person accepts accusations against him. To be guilty without guilt is the heaviest burden for the heart;

swelling, or swelling, - the malice of exaggeration;

excretion or destruction of tissue(necrosis), - the malice of suffering.

In reality, the pain does not appear alone - it hides the temperature, redness, swelling or accumulation of secretions. In the same way, behind other signs of malice lurk four others. Together they form a humiliated malice that causes inflammation. The higher the concentration of humiliated malice, the more likely the formation of pus. Pus is an unbearable humiliation.

Man comes into this world to rise and elevate. If he does not know how to rise, then he does not know how to elevate, and as a result he humiliates himself and others. Humiliation is the source of all kinds of malice associated with life's struggles.

All kinds of malice can be reduced to one denominator - accusation. Evaluation, comparison, weighing - all this, with a slight difference, is, in principle, an accusation. Evil destroys.

There are five main types of malice according to their location in the body:

desire to be better than others- makes a person heartless, destroys the mind;

dissatisfaction- destroys the meaning of life, takes away the taste for life;

overdemanding- splits purposefulness;

forced position- deprives of freedom, makes a person a slave;

rejection- inhibits movement, development.

Of all the stresses, anger is the most complex and insidious. The expansive malice of primitive man causes simple and easily curable diseases. The higher the level of education of mankind, the more difficult it becomes: diseases. They are harder to detect and harder to treat. The most hostile disease of the physical body is a malignant tumor arising from malicious malice.

Malicious malice becomes when a person does not get what his soul longs for, although he considers it his right to receive it, and the person gets hung up on his rights.

At the sight of other people's successes, such a person feels helpless in this unfair life struggle. The desire to avenge injustice can only glimmer in the back streets of the soul and never manifest itself in actions, but it exists and takes the form of malice.

As for AIDS, it is a disease of transition to an already higher, or spiritual, level of development. AIDS is a signal that although a person is potentially ready to rise, because he has suffered enough, he is still not able to refuse the benefits of the visible world, i.e. the physical world. AIDS says that a person with his feelings is in the future, and with a desire - in the past, but he himself is not aware of this (see figure).

The disease arises from the division of life into spiritual and physical parts, between which a clear boundary is drawn, over which it is forbidden to step over both oneself and others. A person who is absolutely sure of the correctness of such an idea does not give anyone the right to shake it even by the expression of natural human doubt. AIDS is a disease excessive rationality.

The one who sees the world in black and white colors consciously cuts off all halftones from his vision of the world and does not understand that thereby turns the present into non-existence. The diaphragm, or abdominal obstruction, symbolizes the moment of the present. The tissues surrounding it symbolize a more extended present - the everyday present. Whoever hurries in his thoughts to the fabulous future will have to go already without a body, because in the present he does not understand his body and does not love it.

The present teaches us to calmly unite opposites in ourselves. Whoever justifies the debauchery of his body by its physiological needs is able to step from the scene of the crime into the sanctuary and, without repenting of sin, feel himself to be a holy person there. If a person believes that he has an inalienable right to enter all doors, then the door to the spiritual world will be closed to him. Awareness of the causes of the suffering of the physical body again opens the gates to heaven to let in the lost lamb.

And so a person who wants to be better than others ends his earthly journey on an equal footing with everyone else. Birth and death prove to every human soul its equality with others until we begin to understand this. And the number and quality of days of life is determined by the quantity and quality self person.

Everything has two sides that balance each other so that the whole is in balance. In life and in the mirror reflection of life in a person, 49% of the bad and 51% of the good. All our stresses are included in this 49%, and I am talking about them.

If this percentage increases, then health, and later life, is in danger. Every person, without exception, is born into this world in order to learn, that is, to correct the bad, that is, to keep this one percent, missing up to 50, as close as possible to zero. This means that a person is born only at the call of that bad, which in previous lives remained unknown to him as good.

A person should resemble a wandering traveler who goes through life and through whom life passes like through a sieve. Of these 49%, the traveler leaves only a grain of wisdom necessary for him at the bottom of the sieve. This grain elevates a person in his dignity. Unfortunately, a frightened person leaves in himself, in addition to a grain, a lot of all sorts of rubbish, and this is the disease. Rubbish is what a person considers rubbish. For one it is one thing, for another it is another. Whoever, out of a desire to please others, forms his own world for the sake of someone else's opinion, he leaves for himself someone else's rubbish.

For a frightened person, both good and bad can be bad, because he is afraid to be under the power of both. A frightened person is afraid of being a slave, and therefore he is a slave. Most of all, he is a slave to his stresses. Everything that a person is afraid of, he just attracts to himself. We ourselves, more than anyone else, do bad things to ourselves, and we look for guilt in others. Fear blocks all movement of energy, causing an overabundance of the corresponding energy in the soul and body and turning the accumulated energy into the energy of malice.

1) Excessive bad, or bad, exceeding 49%, causes physical illnesses of the body.

2) Too much good, or more than 51% good, causes mental illness.

Illusions, or excess of good, cause mental deviations, developing from the accumulation of good into mental disorders and, finally, into mental illness.

A person is able to help his body himself if his mind is intact. If there is no reason, then he cannot help himself. Parents and relatives can help him. If they do not know how or do not want to provide mental assistance, then they have to help the body of the mentally ill, no matter how difficult it may be.

The treatment of the sick, including the mentally ill, should be the most natural concern of the patient's parents, since the child is the sum of his parents. If love reigns in the family, that is, between parents, then the family is balanced. And the child, who is the mirror of the family, will then be balanced, and therefore healthy. Balance is the relationship of two sides to each other, both on the spiritual and physical levels.

What is the father of the child, such is the spirit of the child, the mind and the backbone. This is his material life.

What is the mother of the child, such is the soul of the child, feelings and soft tissues. Such is his spiritual life.

All defects in the skeleton are reflected in the soft tissues, and all defects in the soft tissues are reflected in the skeleton. Whoever does not know how to see himself, let him look at his parents and draw a conclusion. The denial of this truth will hurt in the future.

Mother defines the world, father creates the world.

The child is half of each.

A sick child is the expiation of the debt of karma of both parents.

If parents go through life judiciously, then neither they nor the child are behind the times, and the child does not develop physical illnesses. If parents go judiciously, not ahead of time, then neither they nor the child has mental illness. Discretion is balance, understanding, love.

A child is the sum of its parents.

The sum, as you know, is the quantity, which certainly differs from the terms in quality. Therefore, parents are happy to find themselves in a child when the child is healthy and extraordinary in a good way. But if something is wrong with the child, then the frightened parents can become completely blind.

Fear of being guilty can completely destroy the desire to help.

Their own well-being is more important for those who call themselves doing good. In real trouble, bad people come to the rescue.

Regardless of the circumstances, there is no guilt, only mistakes. And mistakes can be corrected.

A mistake is not a sin, a mistake is an inability.

We come into the world precisely for this purpose, to learn, whether we are parents or children.

The only sin in the world is unforgiveness.

And people commit this sin in large numbers, not realizing that you can’t hide anything from yourself.

Sin is when the good is forgotten and the bad remains in the memory.

The memory retains that bad in which a person does not recognize his own mistake and therefore attributes it to another.

You should not blame your parents: you yourself chose them of your own free will when you decided to be reborn again. You had a need to correct the bad things in this life that they could give. You have come to love them unconditionally, just the way they are. If you forgot it, then try to remember and correct your mistakes.

Regardless of their parents, children themselves must bring balance to their spiritual life.

It is good if parents understand their role in the formation of the child and help him by correcting his inner world. But if parental spiritual blindness does not allow this, then the child has chosen a more difficult life lesson and must overcome it alone.

No one should do good to anyone if the other does not want it, and at the same time, everyone has a need to do good. A person needs to do good to another or give in order to be a person himself. But give? And what is most valuable?

When they give a thing, they give a little.

When you give love, you give a lot.

When forgiveness is granted, the most valuable is given away.

Every forgiving person must have a moment in his life when he feels that he wants to ask for forgiveness from the past for leaving his past without blessed love. When the past is liberated, at the same moment the future is filled with unhindered flowing love, which makes a person happy.

To forgive means to give doubly, consciously and with dignity. Asking for forgiveness means replacing this bad with good, consciously and with dignity.

With generous forgiveness, you can quietly go too far. With a heartfelt request for forgiveness, this does not happen.

It is good when a person knows how to forgive and ask for forgiveness from a person. It is even better when he considers it worthy to forgive the animal. And best of all, when a person learns to forgive and ask for forgiveness from invisible energy bodies, or stresses. Then a person is freed from the force of attraction of negativity and finds happiness.

There is only one God, and that is Love.

He is waiting for a person to be released from the captivity of fear in order to begin to love him.

Man is a wanderer walking on the road of his destiny. Everything that he meets on the way is necessary in the form as it is. A person needs only to change his attitude and begin to realize the bipolarity of life. The one who is freed from his fears can begin to be conscious.

To the question of whether to go our own way, we have already answered with our birth. Now everyone needs to answer how to go. Should I go without stress or with stress?

Despite the increase in stress, the average life expectancy of a person is increasing, which is associated with great suffering and painful death. This means that human souls need deeper and more mature knowledge, which only old age possesses. This need made it possible to discover many possibilities and ways of prolonging physical life. Spiritual possibilities will probably also open up.

Luule Viilma – doctor, obstetrician-gynecologist. After 23 years of brilliant practice in this profession, she discovered in herself the gift of healing the most serious diseases. Luule Viilma came to the conclusion that every person can heal himself if he is taught to get rid of the causes of the disease! All that is required is desire and will. Viilma's teaching is based on love and forgiveness. It helps not only to recover from a specific disease, but also to find your way to Happiness, Peace and Harmony. This book is dedicated to getting rid of the most common causes of disease. Touch the Knowledge that Health brings! Thousands of patients have been healed of the most serious illnesses by studying Viilma's books. Now you!

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The following excerpt from the book Luule Viilma. Book-hope, book-salvation! Healing from any disease with the power of Love (Luule Viilma, 2015) provided by our book partner - the company LitRes.

The root cause of everything

The face of our character

All stresses originate from the fear that "I am not loved."

Basic stresses and their interaction

Any stress eventually turns into anger

2) In whom fear has settled, they frighten him, and he begins to frighten others even for the purpose of teaching or warning. This is already a hidden malice, or a struggle for life.

3) Whoever has anger in him is angry, and he himself begins to be angry. Malice can be:

open, or leading to crime,

hidden, or causing disease.

Hidden malice can be:

benevolent causing benign disease processes

malicious causing malignancy or cancer.

A) Feelings of guilt are stresses of the heart. They make a person susceptible to disease, but in themselves they are not yet a disease. Feelings of guilt weaken.

B) Fears are the stresses of the kidneys and adrenal glands. Fear attracts the bad, but in itself is not yet a disease. Fear makes you helpless.

B) Anger is a disease in itself. Anger settles where the movement of energy is interrupted by fear. What is the malice, such is the disease. Evil destroys.

Fear is located in the body as follows:

pain- the anger of the search for the guilty;

redness- the anger of finding the guilty;

swelling, or swelling, - the malice of exaggeration;

excretion or destruction of tissue(necrosis), - the malice of suffering.

All kinds of malice can be reduced to one denominator - accusation. Evaluation, comparison, weighing - all this, with a slight difference, is, in principle, an accusation. Evil destroys.

There are five main types of malice according to their location in the body:

desire to be better than others- makes a person heartless, destroys the mind;

dissatisfaction- destroys the meaning of life, takes away the taste for life;

overdemanding- splits purposefulness;

forced position- deprives of freedom, makes a person a slave;

rejection- inhibits movement, development.

Malicious malice becomes when a person does not get what his soul longs for, although he considers it his right to receive it, and the person gets hung up on his rights.

1) Excessive bad, or bad, exceeding 49%, causes physical illnesses of the body.

2) Too much good, or more than 51% good, causes mental illness.

Illusions, or excess of good, cause mental deviations, developing from the accumulation of good into mental disorders and, finally, into mental illness.

What is the father of the child, such is the spirit of the child, the mind and the backbone. This is his material life.

What is the mother of the child, such is the soul of the child, feelings and soft tissues. Such is his spiritual life.

Mother defines the world, father creates the world.

The child is half of each.

A sick child is the expiation of the debt of karma of both parents.

A child is the sum of its parents.

Fear of being guilty can completely destroy the desire to help.

Their own well-being is more important for those who call themselves doing good. In real trouble, bad people come to the rescue.

Regardless of the circumstances, there is no guilt, only mistakes. And mistakes can be corrected.

A mistake is not a sin, a mistake is an inability.

We come into the world precisely for this purpose, to learn, whether we are parents or children.

The only sin in the world is unforgiveness.

And people commit this sin in large numbers, not realizing that you can’t hide anything from yourself.

Sin is when the good is forgotten and the bad remains in the memory.

The memory retains that bad in which a person does not recognize his own mistake and therefore attributes it to another.

Regardless of their parents, children themselves must bring balance to their spiritual life.

When they give a thing, they give a little.

When you give love, you give a lot.

When forgiveness is granted, the most valuable is given away.

To forgive means to give doubly, consciously and with dignity. Asking for forgiveness means replacing this bad with good, consciously and with dignity.

With generous forgiveness, you can quietly go too far. With a heartfelt request for forgiveness, this does not happen.

There is only one God, and that is Love.

He is waiting for a person to be released from the captivity of fear in order to begin to love him.

To the question of whether to go our own way, we have already answered with our birth. Now everyone needs to answer how to go. Should I go without stress or with stress?

notice and wake up

Human life is the ordering of visible chaos. Everyone does it the way he knows how, wants and can. The development of man and humanity occurs in the form of a sinusoid. The more reasonable a person's thought, the less amplitude he moves along this sinusoid from one extreme to another, the less pain he causes himself.

Our movement is guided by the spirit, that is, the idea, that is, the goal. We know from the ordering of material life that in order to achieve a goal, it is necessary to have a good plan so that a good idea can be realized. A short path, or easy implementation, leads to the achievement of a small everyday goal. A long road, or difficult realization, leads to the achievement of a big goal, important for the future.

We also know that big things start small. Who from childhood learns to create something with his own hands from everyday trifles, he, growing up, is able to realize big goals.

Release your inability to understand what is big and what is small, and your inability to understand what is main and what is not main in the order.

Otherwise, these stresses can become a stumbling block in your path.

Small starts from scratch.

Big is relative, because it has no limit.

The physical life of every child starts from scratch. The lessons that are given to him on the principle of increasing complexity take him far and high. And if there are missing links in the chain of increasing complexity, since his parents considered or he himself considered that he would not need something from what he met on the way, then every time in the course of his life, following the sinusoid, he will fall into a similar situation, his feet will be bogged down on the road. Each time, deeper and deeper - until the gap is filled.

If you have concluded that the beginning of a child's life is an insignificant thing, then you are mistaken. This insignificant thing has another, very important side, which, in its invisibility, says that the moment of conception is of fundamental importance. Change the quantity of this primary energy of life perhaps only by forgiving their parents for their mistakes, if there is a desire to understand these mistakes. If there is no desire, then life will continue, obeying only fate.

In every moment there is something big and something small. A person who is not afraid understands this, a frightened person does not understand.

Imagine that you are standing on a road that suddenly disappears from under your feet. If this road is like a crust of ice on a dirty puddle, then it's okay. True, there was a fright, but since only the legs got dirty, you went further. Frightened once, frightened another, and the third time you will not be afraid. Like a student, you learned by experience Besides that no need to be afraid dirty puddle. Only the attitude towards the puddle has changed. This is the wisdom of the visible level. But this case has another side. If you understood from the first time why you got dirty with mud, then this dirt in life would no longer stick to you. Before stepping into the puddle physically, you were angry at human spiritual uncleanliness, or meanness, and the dirty puddle drew your attention to this. But you didn't notice it. From now on, you will have to endure suffering until you understand this. After all, meanness is common to everyone. Including you.

People are constantly in a hurry, and the rush is increasing, so talking about such trifles seems to be an enlargement of trifles, that is, an exaggeration. Thus, a person gets stuck deeper and deeper: to the knees, to the hips, to the waist, and gets out of the quagmire with abuse and accusations. And only when a person gets so bogged down that even at the cost of incredible efforts he fails to get out, he finally thinks seriously, asking himself: “Why do I keep getting into these situations?” Or you are puzzled over why such troubles happen to your child.

Little things go unnoticed because of the haste, and therefore, because of the fears. The one who is stuck in a quagmire of problems and wants to get out of it on his own begins to think seriously about life, because he realizes that others cannot help him.

Those few who suddenly lost the ground from under their feet and the quagmire closed over their heads, and then, as if miraculously, were brought to the surface again, begin to believe in the invisible, because at the threshold of death they saw the invisible. A person who has seen the truth will want to see it and believe in it more and more.

Most people do not notice the occurrence of stress in themselves.

They do not recognize their fears, feelings of guilt, anger, because they did not notice either how they arose or how they turned into sensations. Whoever does not follow his feelings and thoughts, he will one day find himself as if in front of a guillotine, feeling that he is being punished unfairly.

Discussing everyday problems with another person, you see how irritated he is by talking about things that have nothing to do with him personally. It is worth noticing this only in passing that, they say, there is no point in being annoyed in vain, as he immediately raises his voice, saying that he is not at all annoyed. Usually the interlocutor tries to stop such a conversation in order to avoid trouble. So neither one nor the other noticed how, from this one trifle, anger increased in both.

Even now, reading this paragraph, you can say in the same way: “A perfectly normal conversation of polite, delicate people. Is it worth it to look for the bad everywhere? But if you understand the essence of the matter, then the interlocutor, wanting to avoid a quarrel, did not say the following: “But you are angry. An increased peremptory tone indicates irritability". Likewise, the other did not see malice in his irritation. And since there was no quarrel, there is nothing to remember, and both continue to live as if nothing had happened. After all, compared with evil, such minor troubles are like a drop in the ocean, which in itself cannot be called a sea. Well, the fact that such drops accumulate more than fit in the sea, goes unnoticed.

If you engage in verbalism and start proving to another that he is still irritated, then a major and irreconcilable quarrel would break out. The end of this insulting quarrel would be remembered by both. One does not tolerate a lie, because he is afraid of it and sees in any small denial not fear, but already a deliberate lie. The other does not want to admit his mistakes, afraid to seem bad, cowardly, unfair. Both do not see that what one of them is externally, such is the other internally.

I have to be such a literalist every day, but in such a way that I don’t hurt myself or others. I wouldn't have been able to do this with someone who doesn't understand. It is especially difficult to talk about the root causes of the illness of a loved one. More than once I refused, saying that one should not disturb the soul of the deceased. On the other hand, it is necessary to know this in order not to die from the same disease yourself.

For example, a very meek, self-sacrificing person gets cancer or dies. How is it that he was the embodiment of kindness? imperceptibly for themselves, people confuse meekness with helplessness, peacefulness with conciliation, willingness to go to humiliation with humility, joy with sadness, respect with love, charity with good deeds.

Desire to live life imperceptibly, without disturbing others, leads to what this modest man feared: a serious illness made him especially painfully noticeable to loved ones. In their hearts, everyone would like to live like a normal person, that is, to be moderately noticeable but dare not. You have to learn to dare.

An article appeared in the newspaper, "A runny nose comes from resentment," which provoked vicious attacks, as if this theory was hostile to man. A belligerent man asked: "What am I now - to think badly about my good friend, if he walks down the street towards you and squishes his nose?" I would like to ask him if, in his naivety, he really did not notice that all people are offended from time to time, because we are people. The article irritated him, because resentment is his weak point. In fact, he thought about what people would think of him now when they met him on the street, and he had a runny nose. After all, a runny nose, damn it, is not so easy to hide. Squishing nose - squelching arrogance, arrogant tearful resentment - this is a traitor who appears at the most inopportune moment, to the shame of the owner. This angry man believed that he would be subjected to the same standard that he applies to others. By the way, American doctors are already studying the relationship between resentment and the formation of cancerous tumors. And we here in Estonia are annoyed when they say that resentment is connected with a runny nose. If an American says that Estonians are petty, then we are very offended and earn a runny nose. At the same time, we continue to stubbornly deny the cause of our cold. We want to show that we are better than others. Because of this desire, a runny nose occurs!

It is typical for people to want to get along with everyone so that there are no different opinions and quarrels. The rationale is compelling: why is it necessary to be for or against someone? I will refrain, and then nothing will be said against me.

What is "abstain"?

This is the fear of taking sides, so as not to make an enemy. He is the fear that the opposite side will not love me. Since it is usually not customary to delve so deeply into such things, especially linking them to love, such fear does not seem to exist. A brave person is not among those who abstain - he always has his own position. The brave one says: "Your deed bad". He distinguishes between a person and his mistaken act, because he knows how a person learns. A frightened person says or thinks, "You're bad." He does not dare to admit his mistakes and therefore does not know how to separate a person from an act, because he does not see the other side of the matter. He especially does not notice the occurrence of small stresses, since he does not perceive emotions as stresses and does not know that they accumulate.

How can you notice your mistakes before it's too late? How to overtake those thoughts that jump through the head at least sixteen times a minute? There are as many opportunities as there are people in the world.

I advise you to start with a minimum program: notice one negative thought in your day and see how it affects your day. If you learn to look at yourself from the outside, as others look at you, you will understand that this thought affects the whole day. When you learn this, you will find one thought in an hour and release it. This is how you learn to watch your thoughts, words, and actions.

Bumpy road to spiritual hell

Whenever a person experiences a good or bad feeling, when he is visited by a good or bad thought, when he utters a good or unkind word, performs a good or bad deed, a feeling of guilt is added to the person drop by drop. For this person does not realize that both good and bad do not exist in their pure form, but have a reverse side. He does not say to himself: "There's something else about it that I don't understand yet, but I'll figure it out in time."

Experiencing shame in front of him for his actions and thoughts, a person suppresses the feeling of guilt until it stops. It seems to him that this will save him from unnecessary trouble. How? As you know, they worry less about strangers. When a person is alienated from himself under the influence of growing stresses, he ceases to worry about himself. This made life seem easier. There is more time to worry about others and pretend to be a good person.

Muting feelings can be compared with anesthesia, which can be of varying degrees - light, medium and deep. The only difference is that during general anesthesia caused by medical means, a person, in addition to everything else, loses consciousness. With local anesthesia, as with the denial of stress, the mind, consciousness and ability to perceive are preserved.

For a person overwhelmed by guilt, life goes downhill, and this happens in steps:

I. A bad feeling, it is also a BAD SELF-FEELING;

II. Bad mood, she is dejection, she is DEPRESSION;

III. A bad act, she is complete indifference, she is also APATHY.

Between these steps, there are also steps in the form of feeling unwell, fatigue (fatigue from life, satiety with life), laziness (unwillingness to do anything, a state of inhibition), comfort, a mass of different shades of dejection, a state of spiritual emptiness. Negative selfishness contributes to utter apathy - an unshakable belief that they consider me bad, because they know that I am guilty. In a word, a double confidence grows in a person: I I know, what people know about my negative side, although I myself I don't feel. Feelings of guilt cause poor health, which provokes a bad opinion of others. Although there is no objective reason for this, a person who wants to be considered good takes someone else's opinion to heart, which means he agrees with it. If a judgment expressed by an outsider was preceded by an attack of terrible fear, it is perceived as an accusation, it is perceived tragically, and therefore each subsequent judgment, comparison, indication of an error strengthens the feeling of tragedy in a person. He reacts to the slightest irritant as if the end of the world has come. His health worsens, and the day comes when he calls himself a bad person. He was bad in one, and soon becomes bad in another, and in the third, and in the fourth, until there is nothing good left in him.

If a person who tragically exaggerates everything demands that others be more careful about the judgments they express, then the victim of tragic exaggeration provokes people of a tragic disposition. Having endured terrible suffering because of tragic people, a person may experience such fear and shame in front of tragic behavior that no one will ever see tragic behavior on his part. This means that a person does not overdo it either in words or in deeds, for he forbids himself to do this. Outwardly, he is calmness itself, and therefore everyone around is perplexed why he constantly has skirmishes with tragedians who make an elephant out of a fly. Such a person pumps and drowns, drowns and pumps guilt, losing faith in their own strengths and abilities, as well as hope to solve the problem. At some point, he feels that he is good for nothing. Nobody needs him, so useless. This is how he treats himself and believes that others treat him the same way. Often this happens, because people succumb to provocation.

Feeling obligated to be good and become everything is better bad person more often involuntarily pays attention only to good people. The more good people around him, the more uncomfortable it is for him to remain bad. It is so? And the fact that these people are just trying to come across as good is another matter. A person who wants to be good does not notice this. His good wish leads to a deplorable outcome, turning into disappointment and bitterness.

Feelings of guilt are fertile ground for everyday problems and illnesses. How sharper guilt, the soil more gracious and problems outgrow the person himself. Than guilt heavier, topics heavier soil and topics heavier disease growing on it. Illnesses correspond to the peculiarities of the feeling of guilt. When a person is angry, the feeling of guilt immediately develops into a denunciation of everyone around. This is a defensive response. A person who sacrifices himself usually does not get angry, because he considers himself guilty.

The worst feeling of guilt is sin.

A person who considers himself a sinner becomes hardened. The most powerful and destructive types of energy are generated precisely by bitterness, and they suppress feelings, like a highly concentrated poison. Fear, lest people find out about his shame caused by his own stupidity, plunges a person into apathy. When a person is overcome by despair because he has not been able to change the world, illness falls upon him.

desire to be good

Often you don’t understand why, having decided to do something, you started it, but did it in a completely different way and got a different result. This happens very often. Why?

Because you didn't know how to be yourself, because you did what you did under the influence of your stresses.

Stress led you, but you need to - on the contrary.

Our stresses are like a storm that does to a person everything that a storm does to a boat as light as a petal. The storm does not ask the boat if it can be tossed back and forth and finally sunk. The storm is just raging, and with this he will say: you are not a helpless petal, you are a person, and you need to think in advance, and if you didn’t think, then draw conclusions later, then this will not happen again. This is important to understand.

There is such a beautiful desire - desire to be a good person. In short, this is our kindness. Kindness is the energy of the tree which makes a person a log. And kindness - such a stress that does not need to be grown, grows on its own - quickly or slowly, depending on how much "fertilizer" it receives. It can start to grow sharply if the desire to be good increases sharply.

The desire to be good fundamentally causes benign tumors.

If we have a desire to be good in any particular area, then the corresponding place in the body will get sick. It doesn't matter where the benign tumor is formed.

Kindness is such a mousetrap that it can't get any worse. Everyone around wants to use a kind person.

This man, in order to stay alive, must now defend himself. But I'm not going to fight those people who want me to live their life, or become the way they want. And what happened happened - in less than ten years I gained 45 kg in weight. But how can you not defend yourself: the church wants to destroy, medicine wants to destroy in its own way, and the sick - well, they would generally be pulled apart in pieces. And as a result, we become more and more, which at the bodily level leads to the growth of adipose tissue. See how big I am, are you afraid of me now? And that I'm afraid of you, I hide. When I deceive you - a small problem, when I deceive myself - the problem is much larger, besides, everyone sees it. And I myself only recently accepted this, but I understood.

Release your kindness, because if you want to be good, but want, even worse, to be marketable, then the stress that is stronger wins, and you will have a marketable appearance, but there will also be cancer, because the other end of obesity is it's cancer.

If I went to a place where they melt fat or do some other procedures to reduce body volume, and they would treat me from all sides and make a “doll” out of me, then this energy will remain, only there will be no room inside for " warehouse of kindness. This energy thickens as the body becomes smaller, which creates the conditions for cancer to occur.

Now all over the world a lot of attention is paid to various diets and other ways to lose weight, everyone hopes that it will turn out very beautifully, but soon these people will become seriously ill. And they don't understand what's going on.

Fat is spiritual self-defense. A kind person, whom everyone wants to use, is forced to defend himself. The other end of kindness is the malice that a kind person, not daring to express and not knowing how to let go, accumulates in adipose tissue. Fat - "depot". Only now they are beginning to understand a little that all these methods are not right.

Be even better!

The desire to be good develops into a desire to be better, this is our pride.

Pride is the energy of the stone.

External pride is important for your external attractiveness, and internal pride is important for your internal beauty, for your human essence. The bigger it is, the uglier this beautiful person is. It can grow so much that a person turns into an animal. A small animal often receives a flick on the nose from a small person so that it knows its place and does not become large.

The attitude towards a large animal is much more cautious - even a big person will not dare to click on his nose, so as not to provoke a fierce fight with unpredictable consequences, so you have to put up with each other's neighborhood. Keep a close eye on each other, growl, sometimes even grin, but, nevertheless, put up. Whoever gives up the slack first is dealt with. The struggle for survival inherent in the animal world and the animal struggle for survival inherent in human pride are essentially the same thing.

A person who is not ashamed of his pride becomes strong in this world.

Pride craves the best and is automatically offended if it doesn't get what it wants. She considers herself entitled to have what she wants. Pride will not take anything away, it longs to be presented to it. The positive side of pride is that it does not allow evil to be done. There are many such people about whom it can be said that their pride does not allow them to allow such disgusting. As a result, the search for the culprit drags on for a long time, until it turns out that just such a person is to blame. How so? Meanwhile, the pride of a person has time to develop into arrogance. Arrogance is ready to tear itself apart if something fails.

Pride is waiting to be given. Pride wishes get.

Arrogance takes itself. Arrogance should get; at any price .

Pride convicts others and is offended when left empty-handed.

Arrogance exposes itself and takes offense at itself if it fails to take away from others.

If pride is stronger than arrogance, then the person does not steal himself, but he is offended that others steal, but he is not capable. Pride forbids, arrogance commands.

If arrogance overwhelms pride, then a person steals and is indignant at the fact that no one looks after their property, condoning theft. Such is his self-justification and self-defence.

Pride is stress that does not wait to be grown, pride grows everything on its own, the sooner the better, it’s good if it’s already yesterday.

Pride is a stress that deprives a person of the ability to think.

Where is the ability to think? Yes, in my head. And in what place? On right. The left hemisphere is the mind, it is memory. The right hemisphere is the ability to use knowledge, it is the ability to think. The smarter a person is and the more he is proud of his mind, considering himself better than others in this regard, the more this person destroys his brain. It may happen that only the left hemisphere will work for him. Since everything attracts like to itself, our pride, like a stone, attracts a similar stone to itself. And they are fighting. You can call it a rivalry or whatever, in fact - it's a fight. And no one will give in. Because if I give in to you, then you will be better, and I will be worse. Not just bad, but worse. And this is a shame. And shame is the energy of death. If I don't want to die, then I won't give in to you. I can do terrible stupid things, then repent to death, but I won’t give in, because shame for a person can be worse than death, it’s better to die, but I won’t give in.

What is worse than pride?

Worse than pride is selfishness! Nothing worse happens. What is selfishness? Try to understand and tell me in one or two words what selfishness means. If a person wants to be better and gets his good, then he immediately considers himself the best, and this is positive selfishness. Such a person believes that he has the right to demand the best for himself.

If a person does not receive good things, then he considers himself worse and feels shame. It is his negative selfishness. So what is selfishness? It is knowledge that appreciates. Knowing that I am better, knowing that I am worse, is selfishness. Egoist always evaluates. If you evaluate something as good or bad, and this is unshakable for you, it doesn’t even occur to you to doubt that this may not be so, then this is your egoism speaking.

Egoism is your insensitivity, with which you kill the one you evaluate, not realizing that you see yourself in him, that is, as a result, you evaluate yourself and kill yourself.

We receive such evaluative knowledge from birth, from school, on the street, anywhere and anytime. We catch some messages, read newspapers, watch TV, listen to the radio, use mobile phones, which, without interruption, give us some kind of ready-made assessment of something or someone right in our ear - there are flows of information all around. And all this remains with us. It is not mobiles that destroy a person, but information that we catch without interruption. If a person has a mobile, then this person does not give rest to his phone. Instead of agreeing on something once, he calls ten times. Check without interruption: you are good or not good, you prove your love or you do not prove it.

When a person has received his good, he immediately begins to demand more, because by this time his desire has already grown. And every time a good person gets good, he is not happy with what he got, he wants even better. Got it again - again dissatisfaction grew.

The accumulation of discontent, which is the stress of the fifth throat chakra, causes mental disorders up to serious diseases. When a person strives, strives, wants and receives at some point, he begins to consider himself the best. Now he has the right to demand that everything be only good. And, with his hand on his chest, he will say: I am not an egoist, because I want not only myself, I want all people to live well. What does he want? He wants half of humanity to go mad and half to die. When a person proves something, for example, that he is not an egoist, it does not matter what exactly he proves, it is always the other way around, we always prove what is not to be the best.

You can strive as an athlete strives to become an Olympic champion. We have one simple, hardworking, nice guy who became an Olympic champion. When he returned from the Olympics to Estonia, in his first interview in a newspaper, he began to say such nonsense: to demand that everyone in Estonia live only well, and take responsibility for making this happen. You are crazy.

Hero kills enemies

The energy of heroism is the desire to hide your shame at any cost, even at the cost of life.

A person is ashamed of his shame and wants to deal with anyone who shames him.

Shame itself is the negativity of the past. If a person knows for sure that nothing can be changed, and then someone like me comes across to him and tries to explain that in the past it is impossible and there is no need to change anything, except for his attitude, then the person is seized with fear and he becomes blind and deaf.

Shamelessness of the highest level - spiritual - includes black magic . Since we are talking about the conscious and deliberate manipulation of the human spirit, while the person himself is not able to protect himself, because he does not know what is being done to him, the consequences are the most serious. The victim suffers suffering commensurate with the extent to which he is afraid of black magic, malice, but the magician himself suffers much more. Moreover, his deeds doom to suffering, first of all, his direct descendants, and in the future he will have to atone for his karmic debt in subsequent lives.

The heroes of the present time are the heroes of labor. We need to understand why we work so hard, why we become machines. By the way, the longer the working day, the more we become like horses, and our hearts get sick. Men are like this: they come to the reception, their heart hurts, and they ask: why? So short, one sentence. And I will answer: because you are a horse. They understand. The more intense the work we are proud of, the more machines we are, that is, the more selfish we are.

The machine does not need food and rest, while a man who has become a working animal needs to eat and rest. The more he works, the more he needs food and rest. Unfortunately, there are only 24 hours in a day. By lengthening the working day due to sleep, a person begins to eat faster and in large quantities. He no longer eats, but overeats, which is why the metabolism is disturbed. Then the working day is lengthened at the expense of the family and children. It is assumed that the spouse himself (a) knows what and how to do, and the children are given orders in the form of notes or phone calls. People live in a family, touching each other less and less. Neither affection nor tenderness, and their lack is felt more and more sharply, here they do not give each other, because there is nothing to give. And they are taught to treat this with condescension. The consequences of becoming a machine can be horrifying.

In a man who has become a machine, the ego can reach such proportions that he does not see not only the results of the work of his neighbor, but also his neighbor himself. If the neighbor does not do exactly the same work and in exactly the same volume, then he, the neighbor, is worth nothing. The man who has become a machine is an egoist who identifies his neighbor with his work. He makes no indulgences for children, women, or old people—neither the small, nor the weak, nor the sick. He has one motto: alive means work. If you can't, get the hell out.

Next to the machine, in no case should one become a slave, an executor of its will only - this is humiliating for a person, besides, one cannot love a slave. They are being used.

Most of all, a person wears out, exhausts, exhausts one-sided heart affection - unrequited love.

Without releasing our inferiority complex, we can love a person with all our heart, but love does not reach the addressee. She will spin in a vicious circle of self-pity, but if I give with one hand and immediately take back with the other, then love never reaches the neighbor. The neighbor can be a working machine to any degree, but as long as he is alive, a person is alive in him, who reveals himself if he is truly loved. Another thing is that over time it will open up with more and more effort.

The machine has no feelings. A car is a car, a tractor for example. The man says that he just does not understand why this woman has been flirting with him for a week. This is how men and women live today. Men don't understand what women want, and women don't understand what's going on with men.

Women quickly become working animals, men even faster become working machines. The more a woman is a slave, the more she strives to prove that she is better. What does the man do then? He drives the slave like a whip so that this slave would be even more humiliated, so that he himself would begin to understand what was happening.

We, women, ourselves turn a man into a loafer, we ourselves. What does a wise woman do? A wise woman makes sure that her husband has a business. No, not more, okay. A wise woman makes sure that everyone has as much work as they need, no more, no less. A wise hostess knows exactly who needs what, she is the heart of the family. And who prevents us from being such a heart? None. We ourselves. We ourselves want to be better than we are. Why? Because we think we're bad. Why are we bad? We'll talk about this later. There is a lot to be said about shame. I write about this in detail in my books.

Pity and sympathy

If you suddenly feel sorry for yourself, immediately let go of this feeling. Self-pity undermines a person's vitality. Acute self-pity causes fainting, and constant - malaise, weakness, lack of any strength.

If you want to help someone - never regret. Pity towards another person is a manifestation of your pride, which also needs to be released.

Compassion is the energy of love. Empathy is the ability to feel the feelings of another person.

Self-pity is like a vicious circle from which there is no way out. If a person is poor, but does not feel sorry for himself, he becomes rich. And if a rich person feels sorry for himself, then he will begin to get poorer.

Pity is a stress that can instantly deprive a person of the last grain of strength, so much so that nothing in the world can help this unfortunate person. There is no medicine that can eliminate the energy of self-pity. You can feel sorry for yourself, you can feel sorry for others, you can feel sorry for all kinds of manifestations of life. He who laments over his life has no vitality. He who laments because of his health does not have the strength to recover. Whoever feels sorry for himself because he has to work, he does not have the strength to work. He who pities his neighbor does not have the strength to help his neighbor.

Who feels sorry for himself because of his gender, he has sexual activity disorders.

Shame and sadness

The higher the level of development, the more intra-family relations resemble the relationship of two strong stones. What determines the level of development? From wealth or from the mind? From mind. So, is Russia a highly developed country? Highly developed, because everyone gets compulsory education.

Since tears are considered a sign of weakness as well as unintelligence, most people try to hold back their tears. It does not matter to sadness whether it is hidden behind a mask of seriousness or behind a mask of laughter. The difference is that laughter can deceive the ear and force sadness to grow, otherwise its need for freedom will go unnoticed. The suppression of sadness, its containment, can lead to the seeming complete absence of sadness. This is what I call the death of sorrow. The mortification of sadness is identical with the mortification of oneself.

To understand the mechanism of suppressing sadness, as well as any other stress, imagine that you have a large ripe watermelon. You put it under the juicer and start squeezing. This is basically the same as saying that a good person does evil in the name of a good goal. The squeezer squeezes juice from a watermelon. The crusher is intelligent, which means he is good. The goal is intelligent, which means good. And only the energy of sadness was treated badly. Since the invisible energy is not perceived in any way, its mortification is, as it were, nothing.

What such a misunderstanding can turn into, I will try to explain below.

Uncryed sadness. It is also the stage of active hope for getting rid of the annoying feeling of sadness and readiness to shed a tear. At this stage, a person actively responds to sadness. He does not dare and does not want to cry, but he cannot help crying. If such a person cries because of himself, then only when no one sees him.

Despair is concentrated sadness. There is a common expression in Estonian: I have a terrible feline despair. What does this mean?

Horror is a concentrated fear in which it is no longer possible to run.. Horror paralyzes the mind and the ability to move. The cat symbolizes freedom. At the level of abstractions, this concept means hopelessness from a frightening forced situation, which leads to a complete blockage of fear and sadness. Everything piles up inside. Sadness accumulates in a person under a completely different name and in a much more dangerous volume.

This stage is similar to the flow of juice from a watermelon.. The harder you push, the more juice flows out until all of it flows out. Instead of releasing every tear that comes out, a person who holds back sadness, as it were, substitutes vessels for collection under tears. Who substitutes the head as a vessel, who - the legs, who - the stomach, who - the back, who - the heart, lung or liver, and who - several vessels at once. It all depends on what problems a person is saddened by.

At the stage of unshed sadness, the following are formed:

cysts or abdominal benign tumors;

fluid accumulation in organs and cavities;

swelling in individual organs and tissues, in entire areas or throughout the body.

Shame kills feelings, and a person is feelings. We can have a terrible mountain of stress, any stress, no matter what: light, heavy, complex or simple. They are a very big load, but they do not kill.

The only stress that kills is shame.

When a person proves his superiority, there are many obstacles on his way. Because life always helps us so that the bad does not get worse.

Tell people: "Shame on you!"- and you can be sure that you will get into the top ten. Everyone knows for himself what to be ashamed of. Since all emotions, feelings, stresses together form the soul, this means that SHAME DESTROYS THE SOUL! So that the soul does not die, there are two possibilities: to leave the body or to start defending itself. Whoever wants to be strong begins to defend himself and suppress shame in himself, becoming a callous soul.

The highest achievement in the education system of a modern developed society is upbringing in fear of death. From childhood, the child is taught that if he does something shameful, his parents and friends will turn away from him. They will stop loving him and expel him from society. He won't have a job and he'll become a loser.

It is with pride and shame that we kill ourselves and generations.

Living in the past means living in shame.

Living in shame, a person continues to live, although in fact he is dead.

Man is born into the world to know himself. Knowledge is movement. Development occurs if a person has feelings. The only true feeling is love. All other feelings are a deviation from the center of balance, that is, love, and we come to correct this mistake. Raising, developing the feelings of the child, parents are filled with pride, and if education fails, the child immediately begins to be ashamed.

The higher the level of development, the more they bring up children with shame. Why? Convenient, very convenient. Let's say this picture: on the street, a mother and a child are quarreling. The child is screaming. Passers-by walk by and are indignant: “Lord, what dense people, how they came out of the forest, well, shame on them!” And my mother is ashamed. Shame kills a mother's feelings. Mom is now so insensitive, she can’t be herself, she doesn’t know how to ask herself, what does it mean that my child screams like that.

Why are the children screaming? You know, children will scream only under one condition: when mom is in a hurry. The child teaches this: mom, whatever you do now, you are not doing it out of love, you are doing it out of fear and guilt or out of anger and shame, it doesn’t matter, you are not doing it out of love, mom, stop. If the mother stops, she asks the child: “What is the matter with you, tell me?” Then she already out of love is interested in what is happening with her child. The child will stop screaming. He taught, and my mother took the lesson.

Consciously or subconsciously, at this moment it does not matter, it is important that mom takes her time. Maybe the child has now saved the mother from something, no one knows from what. Maybe mom with her running around would have been hit by a car, but now, because the child stopped her, taught her not to rush, she was not hurt.

But the child is capricious, the mother is seized with shame, tomorrow the same thing will happen again, and then what will the mother say? Mom will say to the child: "Shame on you, shame on you." If the mother had scolded, the child would have screamed even more, and when the mother says “shame, shame”, then a good result is immediately visible, the child becomes quiet. Why? Very simple: Mom killed the emotions of her baby.

The next day, mother will not say “shame, shame”, mother will only look at the child, and her eyes are already ashamed. And the baby doesn't cry anymore. The next time, mother does not need to say or do anything, because the child has learned: if you do something shameful, then soon there will be no place for you either in the family, or in the team, or in society, or in humanity, because that no one likes such a scoundrel. It's good to get what I want! So it's impossible to just take this ability. We can kill with shame no matter what. If we were ashamed because of ourselves, it would not be enough, but we are ashamed because of others, and this burns with shame much more. Well, for example, we see how someone does something, for example, two dogs do "it". And we are indignant: “Lord, how is this allowed!” Nature teaches me in its own way: man, you don’t know how to love - learn. And I'm ashamed, ashamed. Animals do what is natural and teach: man, you are ashamed of love, naturalness, this kills everything in life, the next generations. A person is ashamed, and soon his eyesight deteriorates. Life gave what a person wanted, without glasses he does not see it, right? But we do have points so that this feeling is preserved, and so that we can kill him even more.

Perhaps you hear someone say very rudely: “Lord, why are people not ashamed after all!” And they are not ashamed. They are not ashamed, but I am ashamed. Whose hearing is being killed now? Them? No, you are the opposite. With them, it becomes sharper because they screamed out. It is important to understand: everything that you are ashamed to see kills your ability to see, that is, sight, and that which you are ashamed to hear, kills your ability to hear, that is, hearing. That's how it works your shame, and for those who do what you perceive as indecent, this is neither cold nor hot.

Why are people being so rude lately? You noticed? More than before. In general, Russians have always been able to use rude words, but I think that now they are being used more and more often. Lately I've been watching American films here. Lord, there is nothing normal there, there sex is shown in the most perverted form and the vocabulary is the same. If I say: “What a shame,” then soon I will stop hearing. Well, how can a person really hear such a thing? What "good man" means, these people never understand. Or maybe in the next life such a person will be an asocial element.

Roughness is needed. The more the feelings, the most important feelings, are killed, the more coarseness is required to awaken them. This is the only way to stay alive. Well, let's talk about such a feeling as smell. The more you are ashamed to sniff all sorts of stinky smells, the more your sense of smell, which has another end, is killed. Smell is a material sense. And the other end is intuition. Intuition develops through what feeling? Through the sense of smell, but also through curiosity: it is interesting to "smell" something. The shame of curiosity, of course, destroys the sense of smell and intuition too. So what to do? Let's find another end to curiosity. This is curiosity. Curiosity is the interest in life. What we have is what we study. This is especially true for boys, right? The boys know absolutely everything, they are so inquisitive, they will find all the attics and basements, examine all the holes, they know absolutely everything. Do they talk about it? Do not speak. Why do they know all this then? It's no longer curiosity. A curious person tells everyone about everything that he learned and saw, where he put his nose. Women usually have conversations: who sleeps with whom, who walks with whom, who made a child to whom. And if we are ashamed of curiosity, then we gradually lose our sense of smell, and with it our intuition.

Taste is lost when we shame someone for bad taste in clothes, etc. If we admire fashion shows, then this humiliates ourselves.

Touch is the most vital sense. Lonely children play with their genitals as it is the last thing they feel. Shame about any sexual manifestations causes frigidity in women, and impotence in men.

Shame, regardless of what we are ashamed of, kills this energy, which becomes an energy corpse inside us and, attracting its own kind, causes a focus of disease.

There is nothing on Earth to be ashamed of. Shame is an invention of people for the convenience of manipulating each other. However, with what we have invented as shame, we are killing ourselves.

Shame is the energy of death.

A person who feels shame and does not release it mortifies himself.

A person who is shy and shy is half dead.

Shame, if not released, turns into shame.

Shame is murder.

Shaming oneself is suicide.

To shame one's neighbor is to kill one's neighbor.

Instead of shame, release your shame and instead of dying, start living.

Anger and fear

When a person filled with hatred begins to get angry, he attacks his like, because he, like himself, does not know how to be a man. After all, one cannot be called a man who grabs a weapon and kills his neighbor for the sole reason that he believes in a God who has a different name. Such an act on the part of a simple Christian is a small mistake, a small fault, a small sin. The same mistake initiated by the church elite is a big mistake. All great wars waged with the blessing of the highest bearers of religious authority were and are holy wars. For whom? Of course, for those who consider violence a holy cause. Extermination as proof of one's superiority is the result of man's inability to think. In short, the result of exorbitant fear. What is the biggest fear?

I answer: dogmatic fear, it is knowledge that frightens.

dogmatic thinking is an adherence to a certain look that bestows momentary peace of mind, when in reality it is unshakable, final point of view, unexamined out of fear. Dogma is when they say about a certain thing: the way it was, the way it is, and the way it will be. The verdict is final and not subject to appeal. well-known dogma (aka blind faith) is a religion that is familiar to everyone, but few understand it.

Atheists have the strongest religious fear, for, in addition to fleeing from religion, they criticize religion by destroying it indirectly or directly. They are driven by fear and hatred blind faith that does not allow a person to develop. They don't know how to get rid of the problem. It is not worth condemning the former "Reds", who are now trying to atone for their sins in the church. Drives them to church religious fear, for people at all times were looking for a shrine within the walls of the temple. As you begin to release your religious fear, you will realize how great it is. It is not surprising that the moralizing moralizing of church dignitaries makes us shudder. Only egoists in a state of apathy are capable of treating this with dull indifference.

Our fears are big enough to attract the heat of hellfire, that is, mental pain. Hell, if you remember it greed. BUT the fact that the frightening sees himself in others, now this is not about that. When you begin to release your religious fear, you will be able to feel how every cell of your body trembles - this is how fears accumulated over millennia declare themselves. What are the fears? All the same - fear of being guilty and fear of shame.

As you begin to release your religious fear, you will encounter religious moralizing more often than usual at first and find that it frightens or irritates you. This is a normal reaction to the fact that the fear that has settled in you has come into motion and therefore has become tangible. As you continue to release fear, you will gradually realize that nothing earthly, including religion, can ever be perfect. Faith, given to man by God, turns into a religion because of the fears experienced by earthly man, because of blind adherence to faith. The idea of an ideal is simply distorted in the process of its incorrect implementation, but only in this way do we learn to learn lessons. Despite this, the true ideal lives in every person regardless of religion.

A frightened person lives, constantly listening to the opinions of others, and the more humble he becomes, the more fatal the value judgments of his neighbors become. Atheism is a product of despair experienced by mankind, humiliated by fears and feelings of guilt. It was no longer possible to atone for sins with personal earthly wealth, since it was no longer enough to satisfy the requirements of the church. The church can deny this claim, arguing that people make donations voluntarily, but in fact this happens in a voluntary-compulsory manner. Not from the feeling that the church needs it, but from the knowledge that it is supposed to be so, from fear - What will happen to me if I don't donate? Because God sees everything. But even those who give the last, the church, nevertheless, continues to consider sinners.

Atheism moralizes just as much as religion, but atheism does not call material life a natural sin. Having come to atheism, humanity got the opportunity for a while to breathe more freely and raise its head. Unfortunately, it not only raised its head, but lifted its nose proudly. People do not understand that they are repeating the mistakes of the past, which is just dressing up in new clothes. They take guilt, that is, sin, on their souls, even when they deny it in words. Neither religion nor atheism teaches a person how to get rid of a wrong attitude to life, because both religion and atheism are represented by people who are not aware of their needs. The givers are not ready, the takers are not ready.

It's time for a renewal, but it's waiting for people to be ready for a new attitude!

If the church would recognize reincarnation, then the Christian would have something to think about in moments of doubt, when he faces a choice between good and evil. (After all, even the Bible originally contained a chapter on reincarnation.) To correct this mistake, the church fathers at first would have had to stop their unnatural moralizing and stop broadcasting in a voice beyond the grave and with false pathos. More than once I have heard pastors quoting the Bible in a normal human voice. At first, I was very surprised: the words they uttered took on a completely different meaning. They even felt a clear hint of rebirth. These were human words, offering a hand to the fallen, helping the recumbent to his feet, and calling the bold to prudence. The same words, uttered with false pathos, have the opposite effect, only aggravating unforgiveness and hatred.

About self-pity and loss of vitality. Luule Viilma

Don't ruin yourself! Foreword

The root cause of everything

The face of our character

Basic stresses and their interaction

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Don't ruin yourself!
Foreword