How to evoke emotions in people. Positive emotions and how to evoke them

In order to learn how to qualitatively seduce each specific girl, it is necessary to have those skills that allow you to evoke the necessary emotions in her. It is important to understand what emotions are...

'Cause they're playing decisive role in the choice that beauty makes. And none logical reasoning are not able to encourage her to start any relationship with you.

But it is not a fact that your ability to give positive emotions will produce the desired effect. After all, a girl may also need negative ones! ( In some cases, only negative emotions can produce the desired effect..)

On the other side, innings negative emotions- kind of walking on a knife edge. And you need to be able to do this so that the girl's interest not only does not disappear, but also intensifies.

How to do this, you will learn a little later. In the meantime, let's talk about the first "group" of emotions. Emotions in seduction...

Positive emotions include:

These emotions need a girl! But if you give her too many of these emotions, then she will quickly lose all interest and desire to communicate with you.

Have you noticed how guys behave?

At first they show interest and curry favor with the girl. This is followed by texting or talking on the phone with regular attempts at a joke. In some cases, they may even ask her questions that only friends can ask (e.g., "how are you?"; why on earth should she tell a guy who doesn't know how she's doing?).

Those. they give the girl only positive emotions. Plus, they're doing it wrong!

Some seducers manage to convey deeper emotions at the very beginning. But if you have little experience, then remember the rule: humor is that rare (and perhaps the only) positive emotion that should be given at the very beginning.

Those. you don't have to show love from the very beginning. Need move in stages to higher level trust and communication, showing more and more interest (if you can go through these stages quickly and mutually, then that's great!).

Of course, you need to show your emotions! But if:

you told yourself that you are in love
and act accordingly
but this feeling is not based on anything

you usually won't get results. Therefore, it is important to be honest with yourself and be aware of why you want what you want from a particular girl.

Also, try alternate positive and negative emotions.

AT traditional understanding negative emotions include banal negativity and insults. Some offended by girls Guys behave, to put it mildly, not quite politely. And, of course, this behavior does not give any result.

However, this does not mean at all that “dark” emotions do not have their own strength. They work! Only to achieve the desired result, they must be served correctly.

How can you give negative emotions:

make a girl jealous
hard "jokes" (better used in those moments when she behaves rudely / defiantly)
show that you care about her
punish for disrespect

Disrespect is punished in such a way that you stop being the same cheerful guy with her as before, and start acting more "coldly" (as if she were just an acquaintance).

Tough jokes should have a little touch of humor in them. Those. in no case should they be pronounced in all seriousness, otherwise it will become banal rudeness.

Indifference also should not be abused: if indifference becomes your permanent state, then it can push the girl away.

“It’s all great, of course! But how do I understand what a girl needs in this moment? - you rightly say.

That is why I will tell you about...

Or rather, what emotions do you need at the moment. After all, success depends on your ability to determine her desires. Total seduction!

In some cases, the girl herself (with her facial expression or body language) can show what she wants, like being punished(you will notice similar manifestations at the moment when she behaves not quite right towards you).

Give her that emotion!

Challenging Behavior can say that she can’t find a real man who could put her in her place. In this case, it is best to use hard "jokes".

If you are in a relationship with a girl and you see that interest in you has become noticeably lower, then determining her desires is not so difficult. Just change your behavior to the opposite.

But at the very beginning of seduction before the action begins, it is more difficult to do this (especially if you have not tried it before). So the only way out- experiments. For example, if, while meeting a girl, you try to speak interesting topics, you joke and, at the same time, you see a lack of interest, then change the strategy (you can start teasing or pretend that you have begun to lose interest in it).

This may give you the desired result!

Summary: your results depend on the ability to give the right emotion at any given moment in time. And the more often you practice in the correct presentation of these emotions, the faster you will learn to play on the verge of a foul. It is this game that will bring you real success in your personal life!

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Comments (11) on “What are emotions? Surprise the girls!”

I always thought that jealousy increases interest in oneself, it turns out the opposite. Roman was very helpful!

Thanks to your advice, I learned to understand girls much better, as a result of which I began to evoke unrealistically strong emotions in them. Now my relationship lasts more than a few weeks!

Thank you for teaching me how to surprise girls. It turned out to be easy to do, and before I could not do it at all! And I even returned ex girlfriend and now we are happy!

I would like you to write an article in more detail about the most common women's checks at least! and even better I did this topic in 2-3 articles! to cover as much as possible and develop communication from dating to bed! what should be emphasized and how to pass their whims and checks! where you need exposure and where to increase the pressure! and so on to bed!

Surprising girls is also not given to everyone. But anyone can learn to do it. For example, I was able to learn and now I solved the problem with the girl. AT recent times I didn't even see her when I was in a bad mood.

It is worth surprising girls in any case, otherwise a long relationship will not work. Actually, when I learned to surprise girls, I solved the problem with a girl who was always unhappy with something.

I used to be sad about this. I could not surprise my girlfriend and that she liked it! But now I have established a relationship with a girl and surprise her as easy as shelling pears!

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How to arouse a girl's interest

Women ... Mysterious and so sweet creatures, but some men are afraid of our inner confidence and often do not fit first. Let's solve the question that worries hundreds of guys: how to arouse the interest of a girl?

The most important thing is to talk to her. Girls love with their ears, and it is important that she notices a healthy interest on your part. If you are a little afraid or not strong in any topics, you can always try to make the conversation fun. You can use a few stupid jokes, try to show more sincere emotions.

Girls love to look at baby photos, so an intricate story from childhood is fine. The main thing here is not to overdo it. For example, it is not worth mentioning the jokes that are told in the bathhouse. This can create awkward situation, with which then you then get out. And all this because a woman's sense of humor is fundamentally different from a man's.

An important rule - do not be afraid of us! If you notice that the girl is comfortable and pleasant in your company, you can take her by the hand or lightly hug her. You can stroke her hair or touch her, as if by accident. Thus, signals are sent, and sexual contact occurs between the couple, which is very important for future relationships. It is very simple to explain this: with the help of touches, the distance between the girl and the guy is reduced, which inspires confidence in the lady. in a good way to win her trust is something secret that you can only tell her. Knowing one secret for two makes the couple even closer to each other.

Girls love everything beautiful and luxurious. It is important to let her feel all this: do not skimp on gifts, even if they are small trinkets. No need to be greedy: giving away some potatoes from your portion will be an excellent deed. You can also treat her to the most expensive cocktail. And what can we say about flowers? Just imagine the delight of any girl at the sight of a chic immense bouquet of flowers that you will give her at the beginning of a romantic dinner. Such actions demonstrate to the girl your stable social status, and this affects the subsequent convergence. Remember that successful men have always attracted and beckoned women.

It is important that a man be individual. If you have your own opinion - do not be afraid to express it, even if you think that the girl does not agree with you. Don't be banal: don't use hackneyed words like, honey, baby, etc. It's worth finding the right word only for her. This situation can help. The main thing is to act spontaneously, and not carefully think through the date plan. Everything mysterious and secret attracts girls. Old tricks, like: “I happened to pass by, since we met, let's have coffee” will not work, modern girls are more impressed by directness, and in some places even impudence. It is better to say directly: "I invite you to visit for a glass of wine or a martini, let's watch a simple comedy." You can even take her by the hand, thereby deciding for her. But if the girl resists dragging her, it is not necessary. Agree, because it will be an honest act.

A man must immediately decide for himself which girl should be next to him. Will you like the impregnability of a modest girl, or will you rather like a proud madam, who is capable of much more decisive actions? Whatever choice you make, prioritize character over appearance. Try to interest her and attract attention not with compliments, but with your mind.

It is important not to show dependence on the girl, but only sympathy. AT go the more you run after her and call ten times, the faster lose interest to you. Such acts and excessive courtship makes the girl feel like a maniac is nearby, which can frighten her away. If you really are that in love with the truth, try to pretend to be indifferent, even if it takes a lot of effort. Use light flirting with her friends so she sees it or you can just chat with them. If they like you, your chosen one will understand that you are a really attractive guy.

And yet, do not stare at her charms. Look into her eyes and only into her eyes. Bottom line: be original, attack as soon as you see a spark, don't be afraid, get to know it more and sometimes let's feel like a queen, keyword"sometimes". That's what we are.

Hello dear readers! It's nice that you understand the importance of positive emotions. Every person strives for happiness, and the more often he experiences pleasant feelings, the stronger he becomes attached.

Today we will consider one of the aspects of the “problem”, namely, how to evoke emotions in a girl. I do not like the word pickup, it is too hackneyed and carries some kind of negative character.

Nevertheless, this article will be relevant to this term, as well as to all psychology in general.

For starters, change

Any negativity should become taboo for you. If a woman herself touches on unpleasant topics, try to find positive aspects in the situation. Unfortunately, you cannot simply and quickly translate the topic, otherwise you will not show yourself in the most favorable light. Try at least: avoid accusations, harsh statements and other things.

As soon as you feel an opportunity, instantly change the subject of the conversation. Use as much as possible positive images: travel, success, kittens, pink elephants and so on.

Pleasant surprises

If you have such an opportunity, then why not use it, but it seems to me that it is more logical for your personality, and not to play on selfish feelings. Otherwise, and the feeling of your satisfaction to fall.

Nevertheless, pleasant surprises, even small ones, can greatly increase your chances of success. It is not necessary to spend a lot of money on, but, for example, you can give her a kinder surprise, a chocolate bar or some other treat every time you meet. By doing so, you show that you were preparing for the meeting and create an anchor.

In the future, she will associate deliciousness with you.

Show your concern - ask if she is hungry, not cold, and if everything is fine. Girls are romantic, and not very rich people came up with romance, so there are many ways at your disposal: record music, create a selection for it, buy interesting book and listen carefully to what she says.

You should not ask “Do you like chocolate”, and then rush headlong to the store in order to please her, but if she accidentally mentions some of her own preferences in correspondence, it will be great if the next time you meet you remember her words and do corresponding surprise.

Send messages by phone with compliments. Do not be afraid to be banal - let it seem stupid to you to read poetry, but many young ladies still enjoy it a lot today. At this moment, a woman does not think about banality, she experiences joyful emotions from the fact that she is worthy. The words are addressed to her, and she cannot but rejoice positive evaluation from a young man you like.

I can recommend a book "A man to grab" Yegor Sheremetyev, in which you will find many valuable recommendations on how to please girls. Thanks to her, you will forget about the competition and you will be able to, which only you will like.

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Mikhail Lomonosov was a versatile person. He is known to us as a great scientist. A person fruitfully engaged in physics, chemistry, astronomy. He also has achievements in geography and mechanics. He also achieved great results in eloquence and oratory.

In one of his popular publications - "Rhetoric", the scientist highlights:

Rhetoric as the science of eloquence in general
Oratorio - requirements for compiling texts in prose
Poetry - rules for composing poetic lines

He says that if only people involved in science should know rhetoric, then everyone should have eloquence.

The scientist tells about this fact in his book, known to a narrow circle of people, “A Brief Guide to Eloquence”. This is quite a valuable publication from a professional point of view. What is so interesting about it that we mention the book, 2.5 hundred years later?

AT article says how, by evoking a certain emotion in the listener, to incline him to the actions that we need.

What manipulations should be carried out in order to engender the necessary sensation in the listener? The first step is to imagine the audience you will be speaking to. It is important to take into account every little thing: age, gender, education, profession.

M. Lomonosov concluded that the representatives of the stronger sex are more easily amenable to oratorical emotions, but quickly move away from their influence. Women, on the other hand, can be influenced for a long time, but emotions penetrate much deeper.

Let's take his advice on how to influence a person's emotions and win his heart.

Detailed guide

Emotions are different, now we will learn how to influence a person with a word in order to awaken this or that feeling.

We awaken joy in the listener

Explain to the person what successes he has achieved and what benefits he has received
Let him remember the efforts and labors he has put in
Remind that many have tried and failed to achieve this goal
It is worth hinting that competitors and detractors are saddened by his success.
Be sure to praise the listener and say that he deserves such a result.

Comforting a Person in Trouble

The needy must be assured that his loss is nothing compared to what he gains.
Show that the listener is not alone in their problem and even the most successful can fail
To say that the black stripe will definitely be replaced by a white one
Show that tears cannot help grief and call for action
Encourage a person with hope for future success

How to awaken hope in a person

You need to convince a person that any obstacles in the way are just temporary.
Advise on ways to overcome obstacles
Give examples when people achieved their goals, even when in a more difficult situation.

Awakening human ambition

It is necessary to praise or even slightly exaggerate the actions and merits of a person
Compare the work of the hearer with the actions of his associates, but give primacy to him
Hint that without ambition you can’t achieve peaks
Convince the listener that with some effort he can solve even impossible problems

Making people angry about the offender

To begin with, you should announce to the listeners that the offender was not satisfied with only insults. That he taunts listeners and is proud of his deed
We need to convince people that in the future this person can do even more harm.
Reassure the audience that any offense cannot be tolerated, and lesser offenses cannot be forgiven
Hint that the offense came from a person to whom you were originally friendly
Reassure the audience that if you forgive the offender for his actions, then the rest will decide that you can be offended

Calling for mercy

It is necessary to describe briefly the situation in which the distressed person found himself.
Try to put listeners in the place of the injured person
If the victim is at fault for what happened, show deep regret
As an excuse, make indulgence for the age of the victim and the circumstances that provoked the trouble
Explain that the mercy of the listeners is the victim's chance for salvation and understanding.

As you can see, by influencing the subconscious of a person with a word, choosing the right arguments, we can cause people different feelings and emotions.

Have you ever wondered why men with the appearance of a monkey or fat guys often go hand in hand with a spectacular long-legged beauty? Moreover, such couples are far from uncommon. You can talk as much as you like that in such situations, grandmas or a huge sexual organ decide everything, but in fact, everything is not always so simple. In my experience, I can confidently say that in nine out of ten cases in the first place for any woman is still not material values, but the emotions of a woman.

Can big money cause positive and strong emotions in ladies? If they are properly disposed of, then no doubt. The ability to present yourself favorably is a bit of an art, especially when it comes to how you can surprise a girl without money. Can cause strong emotions big dick? Undoubtedly. But this male dignity that a girl can hook on are not limited. Although, of course, it will be easier for you to seduce a beauty if you ride an expensive foreign car and look like a confident jock.

But do not get hung up on this, because in the first place is still her emotions. And the fact that she is chosen by the rich and famous is not a plus for you, but a tribute to fashion. Only in this way will she be able to establish herself in society, because she will experience positive emotions if she takes possession of a popular male.

Alas, guys who are not popular with girls are not so catchy. This is the law of nature: she looks for the best male for herself to create a family, naturally she pays attention to what position he occupies in society. In this article, I will tell you how to evoke emotions in a girl, which means taking the first step towards seducing her.

Girls emotions

Many guys ask, what is an emotional girl? Stupid question, because in fact, unemotional girls practically do not exist. Do not confuse life based on emotions, which is inherent in the entire fair sex, with nervous breakdowns, whims, jealousy and constant bad mood. If your girlfriend has all of the above in her behavior, then you should not be proud of it, saying that you are dating an emotional girl. For such a lady, rather, a psychiatrist is crying, because these are signs unbalanced person and energy vampire.

We differ from women in that we behave on the basis of not emotions, but reason and common sense. And therefore, you can try on your male logic as much as you like, for example, to a little girl, but she still won’t understand that it’s possible to do this, but it’s impossible. Your girlfriend is the same little girl, just a big one, and she will always have her own way based on own emotions. And the girl's emotions are changeable like the weather.

How to evoke emotions in a girl and please her? Yes, this is a good option for seduction. But also emotions must be evoked in the right right moment . This is the only way to fall into her soul, and make her think about you. However, it is important to know at least a little about female psychology. For example, you went to a cafe with her on the first date. What will remain in her memory? The amount of the check, the names of the dishes? No, positive and strong emotions, if she really experienced them there with you.

Of course, the chic of an expensive restaurant creates a certain emotional background. But such courtship creates in her head a certain image of you, which you now only have to improve. This means that your every action will be compared with the image of the ideal man that has managed to form in her mind. And if your action corresponds to this image, then it causes a positive emotion.

How to evoke emotions in a girl?

Let's start with the fact that a lot for women depends on non-verbal signs. That is why it is worth paying attention to your appearance, because depending on it, the first impression of you will be formed. And it is very important that it be positive. If your nonverbal cues external image at least partially coincide with the image of the ideal man in her head, then you definitely have a chance. For example, you look after your figure and look athletic. So that she does not talk about athletes and her tastes, the image of a strong man is definitely included in the ideal of a man of any woman.

I don’t know if you know, but for the first time a girl evaluates minutes of acquaintance not yours personal traits and your appearance. For this reason, it is simply necessary to know how to dress stylishly for a man to please a girl.
But your first impression appearance to win it, is unlikely to be enough. Of course, you hooked her, and she will allow you to take the next step - to complete your image with new touches. That is why she will give you her number and you will call her.

Why do some guys end up in bed, while others don't get past the first date or even the first phone call? Just because the first ones successfully completed their image, created the necessary emotions in her, the request for which is in the soul of every girl. And others, on the contrary, disappointed their new girlfriends.

For example, when you first met, you went out of your way to please her and evoke strong positive emotions - just to get a phone number. It goes without saying that not everyone can repeat this trick on a first date. Yes, many guys don’t even bother anymore, they think they came, which means they hooked. And you disappointed. The girl's emotions are like fire, you need to feed them.

And once again about whether it is important to be rich and beautiful. Many guys are wondering if it is possible and how to bring a girl to emotions if you don’t have big money. In fact, this is not necessary at all, although it is certainly a little easier this way. What does a girl need? Any young lady would like to see a young man next to her, who would be in demand among other women. That is, often this is what serves for her as a sign of his attractiveness and competitiveness.

If other ladies like a man, then he is good enough for her. Such a gentleman, in turn, will emphasize the unusualness of the girl, her attractiveness and selectivity. The very fact that she is with him will cause her strong emotions. By the way, it doesn't always have to be positive emotions. Psychologists generally say that there should not be too much good.

Conclusion

Well, in the end, about how to behave on a first date in order to evoke emotions in a girl:

Demonstrate or hint at your popularity with the female. Not too openly, of course, and without sexual overtones.
Talk about your ambitions. After all, you must form in her head an image of yourself as a promising, and if possible, successful young man, with whom every young lady is glad to meet. Of course, if you still travel to study by tram, it is important not to overpraise yourself.

Tell me about the situations in which you performed with better side, for example, showed at the right time leadership skills. It is not necessary to invent fables and stories in which you almost saved the world. You can, for example, simply remember going to barbecue in the forest, when, thanks to your intuition, you found your way or showed your friends how to make a fire in the forest correctly.
Show that you are interested in her not only as a sexual object, but also as a person, that is, be interested in her opinion on a particular occasion. Ask about what she herself is interested in in life and what to strive for.
Use the "carrot and stick" tactics. And it consists in evaluating her behavior and character. Let her know that you really like some of her qualities, but not something. Such frankness will show her that you are not obsessed with her, and the world is not obsessed with her. Do you actually have a feeling dignity, and you are not deprived of female attention, and therefore you are not going to endure her shortcomings, for example, whims.

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Numerous neurological studies have proven that all humans are irrational emotional creatures. Moreover, we all believe that we are in control of our decisions. But it's not. We depend on subconscious impulses and emotions. This is what experienced marketers rely on, who, having carefully studied the psychology and the influence of emotions on a person, use the knowledge gained to create powerful brands.

Why are customer emotions so important to business owners?

You can achieve location and branding
Influence the buying decision
Increase engagement

First of all, experienced marketers pay attention to, such as: joy, sadness, fear/surprise, anger/disgust. These emotions are common to all healthy people and are equally manifested in representatives different cultures who live on different continents.

Renowned psychologist, Robert Plutchik created the "wheel of emotions" which reveals some of the well-known emotional layers.
But in this article, we will only talk about basic emotions, namely, how to awaken them in subscribers using email marketing.

What to use in a letter to evoke emotions?

Text. With the help of text signs, we convey our thoughts and at the same time our emotions.

For example, Kate Spade congratulates subscribers on Mother's Day with the text: “Recognize. She is your everything!” Is it true that the soul immediately became a little warmer?

Images. A person tends to take on the emotions of others. Therefore, it will be effective to use photos that depict people experiencing certain emotion. Photos of animals and children also work great.

Video. In it, we can convey a lot of emotions, since this is primarily a dynamic that helps to create the right story filled with certain feelings.

A great example of such a video is "Evian Roller Babies", which is simply permeated with happiness, joy and fun.

Do not forget that the color plays very important role affecting our emotional state:

Consider the basic feelings of a person:

Joy

The first manifestation of joy in a person is a smile in response to the mother's smile. From this, scientists have concluded that we increase the feeling of joy by sharing it with others. Therefore, in addition to visual content, add social media buttons to your emails.

Sadness

In psychology, sadness is often viewed as the other side of happiness because both feelings originate in the same area of the brain.

Scientists conducted a study during which it turned out that when a person is in a state of sadness, his body releases oxytocin, which later causes feelings of understanding and empathy.

This feature human body can also be used in the mailing list, first sending a sad letter, for example, a reactivation, which will say that you missed the subscriber. After some time, you can send an email with a special offer.

Fear/surprise

Those who are prone to fear, anxiety and depression have high activity in the right prefrontal cortex. The very feeling of fear is controlled by the so-called "tonsil". It helps to identify the source of fear and analyze what will be our further movements (fight or flight). But the feeling of fear can also cause other reactions in a person, which can be interesting for marketers.

A study published in the journal Consumer Research found that consumers who experienced fear while watching a promotional video felt a strong sense of belonging to the brand. That is, the video in the newsletter will help to create a strong attachment to the brand among subscribers.

Anger/disgust

The hypothalamus is responsible for anger in our brain, just like thirst, hunger, pain response and sexual satisfaction.

Anger can lead to other emotions, such as aggression, for example. But it can also cause excessive stubbornness, as in a recent study by the University of Wisconsin. In it, participants were sent emails with the same template, an invitation to read a blog post that discussed the risks and benefits of nanotechnology. The only difference between the letters was that one group was sent a post with negative user comments, and the other - without.

As a result, those who received a post with an expression of indignation from users began to study the topic in more detail themselves, disagreeing with the comments. And those who did not receive the text with comments agreed with everything written.

Thus, angry comments from readers are not always harmful, and often even vice versa.

In the next article, we will talk in detail about how to plan emotional email marketing and what videos can be used for it.